If you're married, hypothetically...

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home.

kendall i can understand you might feel that way but it is not true..

Yes it's true.

It's true ..

Fucktards will always be fucktards.

I may humble opinion some Guys will always cheat ( end of song) However a lot of guys are pushed into the hobby by wife's the stop putting out , and the cheaper to keep / kids whatever is a real issue for most.
Me 3 x a year if I beg ( which by its self is ridiculous and degrading) Some will stay leave etc but the older you get the harder that becomes just saying.

I may humble opinion some Guys will always cheat ( end of song) However a lot of guys are pushed into the hobby by wife's the stop putting out , and the cheaper to keep / kids whatever is a real issue for most.
Me 3 x a year if I beg ( which by its self is ridiculous and degrading) Some will stay leave etc but the older you get the harder that becomes just saying. Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Yes, definitely. Also, sometimes sex with the wife is a chore in and of itself, especially when the nagging and eye rolling from the rest of the marriage seeps into the bedroom. I end up taking commands and criticisms, so even though the BBBJ finish that she gives me feels great physically, the whole thing makes me feel like I'm being used and not appreciated.



The path of least resistance is to keep the marriage intact, the kids with their parents, and get my fulfillment through hobbying.

^^^ BBBJ lucky you ^^^

In relationships it has not affected my sex life at home.. If anything I'm overall happier because I can't ever get enough and when I don't, I get cranky as fuck.

After child 2, she was always too tired or not interested. Even now, it is a once a month thing at best. It was pretty good for the first 7 years, then it was a chore to get her in the mood. Arguments would ensue, and she finally said, you should go find someone to fill that need. It took me two more years and I finally decided to try the hobby. I do feel some guilt at times. But, when the need gets too strong and not being filled, I go visit a friend. Thank you to the many ladies out there who helped me.

Why don't you married tards get passes from your SO to see providers? If the intimacy is no longer present why do you stick around? The kids would be better off if they were in a loving home ... one without resentment.

Because even though the wives don't want it, they'd be pissed if someone else had it. You're not eliminating the resentment. Just transferring it. And possibly blowing the whole thing up.

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I some what disagree...I promise if my GF gave it up 4-5 times a week and did BBJ DT CIM like in the beginning, I would not cheat.. In the past I would just watch porn. But now she's always talking to me. I can't get the alone time. There's also the addiction part.. I'm setting there thinking I should be saving and putting this into my on-line trading account and bam I see a post with some nice tits, a great ass, or a cameltoe which really does it, then I can resist. I make the appointment. Afterwards, I shake my head why do I do this. My GF is beautiful, perfect in every way. I should save this money. Two days later I do it again. It's an addiction and I know it.

His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

That's kind of bizarre. I have never heard a man say those words in my life. Hell, I'm a pretty educated guy but I'm honestly not even sure what that means.

I travel a lot for business, always have. One time about 10 years ago I was in bed trying to get a BJ from the SO and she wasn't interested. She stated: "as much as you travel, why haven't you figured out where to get your dick sucked". Well, I thought about that, and a hobby career was started.