Married but hobbying

Vito,

With your sense of humor and intelligence.....you're first in line. I just want a guy who is able to have sex 2 or 3 times a day...likes porn....toys (for me and maybe him)....3somes every so often and can make me laugh. Oh and has to like The Beatles.

Seriously though......

Its hard to find someone that you can be completely open with. Whether it is just about life in general or sexual. Some are too quick to judge and dismiss. I once dated a guy who was jealous of the lady we brought into the bedroom for a 3some. He ended up breaking things off with me because I liked chicks too. He said he couldn't handle the competition.

Maybe, just maybe if people would take the time to ponder the ideas of their S.O., then maybe try it out there wouldn't be a need for chicklette's like me.

Vito,

...I just want a guy who is able to have sex 2 or 3 times a day(yes)...likes porn(yes)....toys (for me and maybe him)(yes)....3somes every so often(oh yeah) and can make me laugh(defiinitely). Oh and has to like The Beatles(ok, will sacrifice).

Seriously though......

Its hard to find someone that you can be completely open with. Whether it is just about life in general or sexual. Some are too quick to judge and dismiss. I once dated a guy who was jealous of the lady we brought into the bedroom for a 3some. He ended up breaking things off with me because I liked chicks too. He said he couldn't handle the competition.

Maybe, just maybe if people would take the time to ponder the ideas of their S.O., then maybe try it out there wouldn't be a need for chicklette's like me. Originally Posted by MsElena

MsElena,
It would be an honor! Kidding aside, life outside the hobby is hard for most hobbyists. Guess that is why we are here, to escape, play, and hopefully find a temporary respite from the everyday grind. It's not all bad,
but retreating every now and then, is what keeps us going.

im down to once a week unless she has a cold, her period, something good on tv, etc. ive been on my own for 3 weeks now. what am i supposed to do? Originally Posted by girlcrazy

What to do?

Have a threesome; use both hands.

Ha Ha, couldn't pass that up.

JR

You know a wise man once told me...if you put a penny in a jar for every time you have sex before you're married, and take a penny out every time after you're married, you'll never empty your jar!
..... Originally Posted by aspenxtremes

In one of his 60's comedy records Redd Foxx said:
"Did you hear about the thrifty tomcat?
He put a little in the kiddy every night!"

JR

girlcrazy - you get it once a week? You BASTARD!

Vito,

With your sense of humor and intelligence.....you're first in line. I just want a guy who is able to have sex 2 or 3 times a day...likes porn....toys (for me and maybe him)....3somes every so often and can make me laugh. Oh and has to like The Beatles.

Seriously though......

Its hard to find someone that you can be completely open with. Whether it is just about life in general or sexual. Some are too quick to judge and dismiss. I once dated a guy who was jealous of the lady we brought into the bedroom for a 3some. He ended up breaking things off with me because I liked chicks too. He said he couldn't handle the competition.

Maybe, just maybe if people would take the time to ponder the ideas of their S.O., then maybe try it out there wouldn't be a need for chicklette's like me. Originally Posted by MsElena

It seems like for most guys this would be a dream come true having sex multiple times a day and occasionally having a three some.

It seems like for most guys this would be a dream come true having sex multiple times a day and occasionally having a three some. Originally Posted by countryboy74

I actually had a FWB relationship with a young woman who was a true nymphomaniac. Whenever we'd spend time together, we'd have sex four or five times per day. Also, she had no problems with randomly grabbing my cock and pleasuring it.

Of course, there was a price to pay. This woman was a total headcase. For instance, she had shot a .45 bullet into a wall in her dorm room when she was contemplating suicide. She was also very mean-spirited, and not the sort of person I'd ever hope to end up with.

The point being, it got to the point that even having sex four to five times per day wasn't enough.

Damn Phil, 4-5 times a day. I'm lucky to get it 4 times a month. 4-5 times a day, I wouldn't still be on this earth, but it would be a great way to go out

I think about all the money I've spent in this hobby and just laugh. Imagine all the good things my wife could have that she wants if she'd just give it up often enough. Hell, the providers are more affectionate than my wife.

I actually had a FWB relationship with a young woman who was a true nymphomaniac. Whenever we'd spend time together, we'd have sex four or five times per day. Also, she had no problems with randomly grabbing my cock and pleasuring it.

Of course, there was a price to pay. This woman was a total headcase. For instance, she had shot a .45 bullet into a wall in her dorm room when she was contemplating suicide. She was also very mean-spirited, and not the sort of person I'd ever hope to end up with.

The point being, it got to the point that even having sex four to five times per day wasn't enough. Originally Posted by Philhelm

Showoff!!

I think about all the money I've spent in this hobby and just laugh. Imagine all the good things my wife could have that she wants if she'd just give it up often enough. Hell, the providers are more affectionate than my wife. Originally Posted by sherm

............. amen..................... plus 1 ..................... ditto..........

when it's all you get and it becomes pretty mechanical (after 23 years - min once per week) things get a very stale. It also isn't great to have it implied that I'm lucky to get even it! So.....now I've entered the hobby...AM I GREEDY?

NOTE: she's a perfect wife in every other respect....really a cool person but has just lost interest. I feel that my outside exploits will hold an otherwise great marriage together.

I actually had a FWB relationship with a young woman who was a true nymphomaniac. Whenever we'd spend time together, we'd have sex four or five times per day. Also, she had no problems with randomly grabbing my cock and pleasuring it.

Of course, there was a price to pay. This woman was a total headcase. For instance, she had shot a .45 bullet into a wall in her dorm room when she was contemplating suicide. She was also very mean-spirited, and not the sort of person I'd ever hope to end up with.

The point being, it got to the point that even having sex four to five times per day wasn't enough. Originally Posted by Philhelm

Give her my number, K? I'll suffer through that shit for a while.

when it's all you get and it becomes pretty mechanical (after 23 years - min once per week) things get a very stale. It also isn't great to have it implied that I'm lucky to get even it! So.....now I've entered the hobby...AM I GREEDY?

NOTE: she's a perfect wife in every other respect....really a cool person but has just lost interest. I feel that my outside exploits will hold an otherwise great marriage together. Originally Posted by matthelm

Yes, you're greedy!
Seriously tho, if it's that good don't ef' it up, it could be a LOT worse, trust me.

It also isn't great to have it implied that I'm lucky to get even it! Originally Posted by matthelm

I hate that. What was even worse was when one of my ex-girlfriends had tried to guilt trip me. She would say that the fact that I had wanted to have sex with her often, somehow implied that I loved her less. Really? WTF? That's not very romantic.