Double Standard Blues

Could someone explain why they care what she does with it after delivery?

Guess I never really cared what happened to it after I was done with it. Originally Posted by mansfield

I wish I could somehow wrap my mind around this point of view. It would sure save me a lot of money, time and frustration. I guess my own perspective on the value of the swallow is expressed in an interview I once saw with Sir Edmund Hillary, during which he was confronted with the idea that Mallory, and not he, should be nominated the first man on Everest, since Mallory's remains may have been discovered near the summit. His response was that a climber's safe return--surviving the attempt--might be deemed an essential part of the achievement. In other words: If the mountain kills you, then you didn't really climb it; if the girl spits, then she didn't really blow you. The issue here is one of definition, and yes, certainly more cognitive than physical.

if the girl spits, then she didn't really blow you Originally Posted by roaringfork

I guess my take is a little different. If she does it right you damn near pass out afterwards and don't really know what happened for the next 30 seconds or so anyway

She could tell me it went any number of places and I should be like "If you say so, can I have some water?" Not that it actually works out that way very often mind you....

i dont have a problem with endulging on the harty drink, but its not something i do on a regular. cim is always my methode of reciving unless otherwise requested by the gentalmen. i will say if you want it drank or played with please eat and dring some fruit and fruit juises. it changes the tast to a much mor enjoyable and pleasurable delight for us girls. excpecialy pinapple!!

its definetly the taste for me, i describe it as a mouth full of old old pennies! DULL and leaves an after taste.

Hey, mine is minty.

I wish I could somehow wrap my mind around this point of view. It would sure save me a lot of money, time and frustration. I guess my own perspective on the value of the swallow is expressed in an interview I once saw with Sir Edmund Hillary ... His response was that a climber's safe return--surviving the attempt--might be deemed an essential part of the achievement. In other words: If the mountain kills you, then you didn't really climb it;

if the girl spits, then she didn't really blow you.

The issue here is one of definition, and yes, certainly more cognitive than physical. Originally Posted by roaringfork

roaringfork, it appears you are new to this sub-culture (based on post count, threads started, etc). correct me if i am wrong.

going with that assumption, i would say you have a lot of learning to do.
in my humble opinion, attempting to transfer real-world ideas, assumptions, beliefs to this sub-culture is filled with missteps and failures.

sure, there are some things that can be transferred, but the bolded line above is a perfect example.
if she spits, then she got something out of you.
hence, she blew you.
it doesnt have anything to do with mountains.

in this sub-culture, everyone has their own idea of what they want to do or are willing to do. and, unfortunately, sometimes you have to find out first hand. reviews are great as is private communication with the other guys. but you will never really know until you are there.

so, if it is really important to you that she swallow it, let the woman know.
she will either say - you betcha -or- no way jose -or- or maybe next time.
respect her decision and do what you think is best for you.

one thing that transfers over from real life is COMMUNICATION.

good luck in your encounters.

Anyone here familiar with Dan Savage of the Savage Love columns? I adore his advice. He considers swallowing to be extra credit.

Here's the link:

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/S...e?oid=14780741

Otherwise, don't see ladies that don't offer swallowing. But I can tell you as a woman who generally does, women feel differently at different times. And wanting to do that particular thing requires a few things from the man himself.

I won't go into THAT but there you go.

By the way, there are other ways of disposing said material other than jumping up and running to the water faucet. One would be feeding it back to you!

By the way, there are other ways of disposing said material other than jumping up and running to the water faucet. One would be feeding it back to you! Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

That would be a big HELL NO! Not this cat. Running to the sink is just fine, spit it in a towell on the bed, whatever you wanna do with it is fine with me. But I don't want it back. Lol