I like to warm my organic liquid coconut oil up for use...so i carry a baby bottle warmer to warm it with...and I have it in a hard plastic sports bottle with pop up lid for easy access and convenience
Sounds funny but after a bad burning sensation from a silicone lube. I started to really look into a good safe lube. What I found and like is called Safe-Lube it is for veterinary use in breeding animals. It is mild enough not to destroy sperm, in these applications, and is very slippery. It's $12.95 For a gallon. Is water based, comes back to life with water, but cleans up easy. I also like that it's probably has more quality control in it because it's used by veterinarians. eNasco.com carries it. Similar to wet glide just a lot cheaper.
I haven't tried Jlube or vet lube but when I'm working on using bigger toys that are fist size I use Swiss Navy silicone lube. The only downside is that it turns my shower into a skating rink. I tried other silicone lubes like Shibari and Swiss Navy was way better.
When I'm playing for a shorter amount of time with smaller toys I use Sliquid H2O and it's the best water based lube I've ever used.