Giving vs. Recieving

I'm multiorgasmic and I really enjoy experiencing intense clitoral orgasms. Even better when one sucks on my labia slowly and gently. And inserts a finger or two!

That said, if I had to choose between giving and receiving, I'd say giving. Not because I don't thoroughly enjoy cunnilingus, but giving a blowjob feels empowering to me in way I really crave and appreciate. At times, I can even cum from giving head without receiving any vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Maybe because I'm a submissive and find myself bottoming most of the time. When sucking cock I get to be the one in control and running the show... unless I'm being face fucked.

if I had to choose between giving and receiving, I'd say giving. Not because I don't thoroughly enjoy cunnilingus, but giving a blowjob feels empowering to me in way I really crave and appreciate. At times, I can even cum from giving head without receiving any vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

damn, Lena..

we need to find a time when I can offer you an opportunity to feel more empowerment!

it comes down to who is really a Professional. the ladies who have reached that level understand that guys want different things, and ladies are able to accommodate. whether she enjoys receiving DATY is immaterial.

like any other Profession, there are winners and losers. Winners "give" (as mentioned, giving can be receiving), Losers do not. looks and pricing are minor metrics compared to giving.. or not. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

I suspect that with the downturn the ladies that exhibit professionalism will survive...others will not! Culling the herd is a good thing.

I'm multiorgasmic and I really enjoy experiencing intense clitoral orgasms. Even better when one sucks on my labia slowly and gently. And inserts a finger or two!

That said, if I had to choose between giving and receiving, I'd say giving. Not because I don't thoroughly enjoy cunnilingus, but giving a blowjob feels empowering to me in way I really crave and appreciate. At times, I can even cum from giving head without receiving any vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Maybe because I'm a submissive and find myself bottoming most of the time. When sucking cock I get to be the one in control and running the show... unless I'm being face fucked. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

This!!!

For me, I’d prefer a girl who truly enjoys receiving as much as (if not, more) than giving. If you can take the “IO” out of “IOP” that makes it all worth while!

I'm multiorgasmic and I really enjoy experiencing intense clitoral orgasms. Even better when one sucks on my labia slowly and gently. And inserts a finger or two!

That said, if I had to choose between giving and receiving, I'd say giving. Not because I don't thoroughly enjoy cunnilingus, but giving a blowjob feels empowering to me in way I really crave and appreciate. At times, I can even cum from giving head without receiving any vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Maybe because I'm a submissive and find myself bottoming most of the time. When sucking cock I get to be the one in control and running the show... unless I'm being face fucked. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

Well said your post gave me goosebumps

For me, I’d prefer a girl who truly enjoys receiving as much as (if not, more) than giving. If you can take the “IO” out of “IOP” that makes it all worth while! Originally Posted by TheDiceMan

Enough IO in the P and you’ll think , what illusion? That’s the whole idea

Damn. I was going to say both but since we have to choose one ...

After reading a Reditt thread on r/sexworkers I found it interesting that some sex workers would rather not be eatin out while working. Some reasons being that the sex act is compartmentalized, the focus is getting the guy off, the clit being overstimulated, or just not into the guy.

So what do our eccie ladies think about that? Would you rather have us spend the hour eating you out, or giving us head? In this scenario you can't have both. Originally Posted by FattyMcGee

My nature is very much to nurture. So.....I'd pick giving.
I'm a warm, caring and generous giver .