Doms who are Actually Escorts

I've always thought it was amusing that the Doms that don't offer sexual favors want to set the rules for everyone else. I can't count how many times I've seen a Houston Dom complain about this on various boards. I used to regularly participate in the BDSM scene. Of course, most Doms don't offer favors, but there is no rule set in stone.
There always have been and always will be Doms that offer extras. It's also a YMMV kind of thing as well. I do remember the first time a gorgeous Pro Dom let me go down on her, after the session was over we shared some small talk. She said something to the effect of, "Licking my boots does nothing for me." If I'm going to have you lick something, it ain't gonna be my boots!"
Offering extras isn't for every Pro Dom, but trust me, there will always be a great demand for those that do.

I am a Domme and I do and fuck whomever I please, whenever I please. And just because I am one doesn't mean that I have to be or act a certain way all the time.

Is there a posting of "Domme rules" somewhere that I haven't seen?

Daphne, surprised you haven't come across the Dom rules yet? The Dom rules seem to pop up whenever a Dom's business starts to fall off because of a few Doms that offer extras. A few Doms start offering extras, word gets out, then subs expect more. Or, just do business with Doms that offer more.
The amusing thing is, this isn't rocket science. While a lot of subs are used to doing without, if a Dom can play the role well and offer extras, who do you think he is going to see?

A real domme doesn't let her sub fuck her. It's giving up some of her authority. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

No shit? That sounds almost as good as a sharp stick in the eye.

You mean like someone who buys a set of cuffs and thinks they are now offering submission sessions? Well yeah, I agree. Originally Posted by Sonya

Ah, we agree.
:Group hug:

But most subs who are really into the lifestyle see right through them. Originally Posted by Sonya

Maybe if Gothchic comes back to this thread she'll expound on her position. Her statements do not have the appropriate reinforcement/citations.

I think her last thread explains this one.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1153635

Daphne, surprised you haven't come across the Dom rules yet? The Dom rules seem to pop up whenever a Dom's business starts to fall off because of a few Doms that offer extras. A few Doms start offering extras, word gets out, then subs expect more. Or, just do business with Doms that offer more.
The amusing thing is, this isn't rocket science. While a lot of subs are used to doing without, if a Dom can play the role well and offer extras, who do you think he is going to see? Originally Posted by GymRat

Winner winner chicken dinner!

I never could get into just being spanked. Now being dominated , where mistress rewards her slave with some bedroom antics is a different story.

I think the way it actually works is if your are Dominated, you are Fucked

I here where you're coming from also. I think some guys like to be dominated and then fucked. On the other hand, I have seen a DOM after her DOM Session because she was turned on and the guy wouldn't fuck her!

As for me, to quote a great singer, song writer and actor...TYRESE GIBSON....Straight Fuckin! Originally Posted by DarthMaul

I thinck its just marketing ploy for some hooktards to be able to be a bitch and get paid for it.

I think the way it actually works is if your are Dominated, you are Fucked Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

This.

This. Originally Posted by Sonya

Is.

Labels and rules, please. I've seen doms that didn't let me touch them, and some that let me eat them. Some jerked me off, some didn't. Some ass fucked me with strapons and some only used toys they held in their hands. Just because you don't want to do something doesn't make those that do any less legit. Originally Posted by thirtyfour

The OP's false assumption is that there are "rules" ... Everyone can do as they please ... The only "rule" is the limitation you put on yourself.