Should I be so paranoid?

So I should just place it on the table and ignore it. Then I should just start talking to the provider, right? Sounds simple enough. I've been through the drill a couple of times...some providers just take it from me though - so I wasn't sure what the reasoning was exactly. Originally Posted by cruise95
Yeah pretty much, when it's me, the gent puts their gift on the table and give him that nod and say thank you and we continue our session. I never ask about it, or talk about it at all. After we're done and I'm heading to the restroom to compose myself and freshen up I grab my purse and the donation and make sure everything is in order before putting everything away. The fun doesn't start until it's on the table with first visits, unless I know the provider he gave as a reference personally and know in detail that he's a gentleman. With repeats and regs it's at our leisure, they know I'll punish them if they misbehave

It's obvious you weren't worried about getting busted for buying condoms, but I can TOTALLY understand getting spooked by seeing a cop as you're on your way to see a call girl. I've canceled appointments because the guy said one off comment that made me uneasy (I'm pretty easy going though, so when that line is crossed it usually merits a response)

It's never any fun if you're worried about everything that can or might go wrong. Thats why you do all your research and get comfortable before taking the plunge. Like I said, the chick was way off for asking you to pick them up to begin with. It's incriminating, and just plain dumb. You're don't have the wrong idea though, the cops use that tactic to incriminate pedos on dateline. They'll have their bait ask for alcohol or some specific token to prove they were coming to see that specific girl.

This is a dangerous industry on a lot of fronts babes, but as long as you cover your own ass and stay away from trash, you'll be just fine. Don't beat yourself up about it, men have canceled for much less.
I believe you should follow your first instinct in any situation.
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You're not paranoid when the threat is real. This was actually an elaborate ruse to catch you soliciting sex for money. They've been planning it for months...the sting to end all stings...and you foiled their plans! WOW! Yes, this is being paranoid.

Stay off BP! Leave it to the schleps who want to be on the evening news...and the ladies who love them.
Next time foil their evil plot by going to a different CVS!!!! Yes you are a little (a lot) paranoid! But that is not all bad. Be cautious not ridiculous. If they was trying to entrap you there would be unmarked cars hidden at the seen of the crime...
Seems a little paranoid in my opinion. How would the cop at the cvs be connected to your girl at all? I think it was more of a coincidence than anything. I think it would be more of a chance of getting in trouble if the police were actually hanging out outside the incall location or they followed you over and watched the whole scenario play out through the window. but you're probably more likely to be followed for speeding and hitting a mailbox in your haste to get away.
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Having watched dateline and seeing how they setup people using similar tactics, I would have been paranoid that I might be starring in a future dateline episode about the hobby I am sure the secret service incident has brought a lot of attention about escorting. Would be nice if it somehow helped bring about decriminalization but I won't hold my breath and continue to be a bit paranoid like the OP.
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Having watched dateline and seeing how they setup people using similar tactics, I would have been paranoid that I might be starring in a future dateline episode about the hobby I am sure the secret service incident has brought a lot of attention about escorting. Would be nice if it somehow helped bring about decriminalization but I won't hold my breath and continue to be a bit paranoid like the OP. Originally Posted by jughead1171

I don't think the SS incident will do anything but get a few agents fired, and Congressmen re-elected for their hard-nosed stance on American values.

Truth is...escorting is legal. I don't pay for sex. I pay for a professional's time...just like I pay for my attorney's time...so that I can interact with that person. If we like each other...sometimes things happen.
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Id start carrying a firearm
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Don't forget to wear a tin foil hat ... the tin foil blocks the brain control devices.
I called a provider (that I saw on P411...I think I also saw her on BP) up last week and she asked me to drop by CVS and pick up some protection for her (since she had forgot to get some and that she would pay me back). Of course I told her not too worry about it and I would grab some for her.


When I went to CVS I noticed a cop car waiting next door to CVS. After thinking about it for a while I called her back and said that I was sorry but that I would have to get back to her later and that I couldn't meet her right then after all.


It just seemed kinda odd that she was wanting me to get condoms AND that I saw a police car. If I just went to her hotel room and was busted then maybe I could weasle out...but if I went to her hotel room AND I had condoms in my back pocket then the police would have no problem. Maybe I am being too paranoid, but I don't need this on my record and the situation just didn't seem right to me.


She has several reviews on here...should I be so paranoid? Thanx Originally Posted by cruise95
Did the lady in question TELL you where to go to get the condums?? If she did, then maybe you were wise to bail ..If she did not you are waaaaaaay to parinoid. I agree that you must always exercis caution, but if all it takes for a bust is being in a room with a girl and a condum then lots of teen-age boys could have a problem onprom night,