Wow - I’ve been ripped off twice too - exact same scenario. I was pretty sure husband thing was a scam, but it wasn’t worth the hassle to fight.
First, was the angry husband at the door act. What are you doing with my wife, you need to leave now.
Second, the I need a room can you front me, then she disappears act. Originally Posted by Starscream66
- turbo-dog
- 08-30-2022, 03:59 PM
- BigShit
- 09-01-2022, 12:42 PM
I need to schedule some time. 
- gimme_that
- 09-04-2022, 01:20 PM
The scams pulled on me and others over my hobby career. What I learned is don’t bend or fold on my requirements. Sometimes that limits my options but it’s less headache. Never pay first is the safe bet.
1. The “oh my I’m suddenly on my period.” I’ll just keep the money, pay you half, or see you next time.”
Remedy: I only pay after…….or if she needs to leave early payment for time served from out deal. Leave when you want with matching pay upon request. Since I generally book multi-hours I do ask about this health stuff in advance to avoid issues. Returning flight cancelled though for wasting my time.
2. The “I gotta pay my babysitter, partial rent, bill, etc (ride, pimp, etc) in my waiting ride first.” Scam.
Remedy: same as above.
3. The incall hotel room “closet pimp” or “shower pimp” or boyfriend with key to room. Often takes latch off of door when you wash your hands.
Remedy: I don’t do incalls ever
4. Cash and dash easy access hotel with parking lot or pool right on outside door. Too easy to let someone in.
Remedy: I don’t pick hotels with easy access like that.
5. The locked bathroom door (multiple times) while they take a bubble bath playing stereo music.
Remedy: I won’t go into why I noticed this as a red flag to stay in rules on board for many reasons…….but it’s not a good sign.
6. “Pay me first.” Ok sorry I only dance. No touching.
Remedy: same as above don’t pay first.
7. The doubles partner who suddenly isn’t in the mood to do anything. And the lady that set it up is (fake) mad at her.
Remedy: kick them both out and cut all ties.
8. The incall petite spinner hidden under the bed who pulls your pants under to attempt to steal your wallet while the other lady rides on top of you. . “Why are my pants moving like ants are pulling them. Lol
Remedy: check closet (hang something), use toilet (check behind shower curtain), and put shoes next to bed and drop something to check.
9. The pay for my hotel first scam never was pulled on me.
10. If you have a booked multihour and the lady doesn’t have a night bag obvious scam. No one packs that efficient and she damn sure didn’t leave it in the car.
11. The lady who doesn’t like to cuddle at night. She wants to go through your pockets. Fake sleep and see what she tries.
Remedy: payment by pay apps only after with locked phone, cash Donation under mattress, in fridge freezer, donation in water proof bag in shower with locked door, donation locked in safe deposit box at front desk)
12. The cigarette break cash and dash.
Remedy: pay after only. Get a room with a balcony. She may still throw the prepaid donation at her driver two floors down lol. Just don’t.
13. Chick who attempt to smoke in luxury hotel bathroom with their towel tricks after you told them not to. Safety deposit charged.
14. Extra key rob. Always keep only one key to your room.
15. Chick with fake night bag with very cheap items inside. Says she’s goi by to her car and will return as she forgot something. Cash and dash
16. Had an incall in the same city or area and needs a travel deposit.
Most reputable don’t require it they have resources.
New ladies tend not to have as many start up resources. Gas fare is sufficient in those cases. So a small deposit I might do.
Scams from trusted ladies with reviews:
1. Wont provide a provider reference to see another lady or gives issue or stalls when you ask.
Remedy: everything is good when you want to see them, but if you opt to see others they get jealous or see it as missed opportunity. No confidence. Do not see these types of ladies again. Pass the word. But most times it’s already known on both sides.
2. Reputable scams you by not looking as she looks in her ads, reviewers leaving crucial red flag info off, not performing to the standard of her reviews, etc. she feels as though she can get away with things and you have no recourse based on her reputation. you write a review or pass the word and she attempts to blacklist you.
Only happened a few times to me but comes with the territory. I wrote good truthful reviews and gave good reports and dawgs were appreciative. Choose wisely.
3. Borrowing money for a future meet, but not answering phone or providing that free time. Unfortunately regulars tend to attempt this. Some touring ladies do this too.
4. Confides in you about a family sob story that requires money and time…..and includes it into a situation where she needs to leave early. Since you have seen her before she should be trusted.
Remedy: don’t do it. Keep the pillow talk on the pillow. She would not give you loaner vagina Tuesday for money paid on a Thursday. She shouldn’t expect that from you.
5. Takes Touring deposit but doesn’t come. Doesn’t pay back as fast and as efficient as you sent it. Doesn’t want to pay the fees to pay you back in full. If I paid you 1000 in advance, I don’t want 987.32. Maybe I’m petty party but still. Lol.
1. The “oh my I’m suddenly on my period.” I’ll just keep the money, pay you half, or see you next time.”
Remedy: I only pay after…….or if she needs to leave early payment for time served from out deal. Leave when you want with matching pay upon request. Since I generally book multi-hours I do ask about this health stuff in advance to avoid issues. Returning flight cancelled though for wasting my time.
2. The “I gotta pay my babysitter, partial rent, bill, etc (ride, pimp, etc) in my waiting ride first.” Scam.
Remedy: same as above.
3. The incall hotel room “closet pimp” or “shower pimp” or boyfriend with key to room. Often takes latch off of door when you wash your hands.
Remedy: I don’t do incalls ever
4. Cash and dash easy access hotel with parking lot or pool right on outside door. Too easy to let someone in.
Remedy: I don’t pick hotels with easy access like that.
5. The locked bathroom door (multiple times) while they take a bubble bath playing stereo music.
Remedy: I won’t go into why I noticed this as a red flag to stay in rules on board for many reasons…….but it’s not a good sign.
6. “Pay me first.” Ok sorry I only dance. No touching.
Remedy: same as above don’t pay first.
7. The doubles partner who suddenly isn’t in the mood to do anything. And the lady that set it up is (fake) mad at her.
Remedy: kick them both out and cut all ties.
8. The incall petite spinner hidden under the bed who pulls your pants under to attempt to steal your wallet while the other lady rides on top of you. . “Why are my pants moving like ants are pulling them. Lol
Remedy: check closet (hang something), use toilet (check behind shower curtain), and put shoes next to bed and drop something to check.
9. The pay for my hotel first scam never was pulled on me.
10. If you have a booked multihour and the lady doesn’t have a night bag obvious scam. No one packs that efficient and she damn sure didn’t leave it in the car.
11. The lady who doesn’t like to cuddle at night. She wants to go through your pockets. Fake sleep and see what she tries.
Remedy: payment by pay apps only after with locked phone, cash Donation under mattress, in fridge freezer, donation in water proof bag in shower with locked door, donation locked in safe deposit box at front desk)
12. The cigarette break cash and dash.
Remedy: pay after only. Get a room with a balcony. She may still throw the prepaid donation at her driver two floors down lol. Just don’t.
13. Chick who attempt to smoke in luxury hotel bathroom with their towel tricks after you told them not to. Safety deposit charged.
14. Extra key rob. Always keep only one key to your room.
15. Chick with fake night bag with very cheap items inside. Says she’s goi by to her car and will return as she forgot something. Cash and dash
16. Had an incall in the same city or area and needs a travel deposit.
Most reputable don’t require it they have resources.
New ladies tend not to have as many start up resources. Gas fare is sufficient in those cases. So a small deposit I might do.
Scams from trusted ladies with reviews:
1. Wont provide a provider reference to see another lady or gives issue or stalls when you ask.
Remedy: everything is good when you want to see them, but if you opt to see others they get jealous or see it as missed opportunity. No confidence. Do not see these types of ladies again. Pass the word. But most times it’s already known on both sides.
2. Reputable scams you by not looking as she looks in her ads, reviewers leaving crucial red flag info off, not performing to the standard of her reviews, etc. she feels as though she can get away with things and you have no recourse based on her reputation. you write a review or pass the word and she attempts to blacklist you.
Only happened a few times to me but comes with the territory. I wrote good truthful reviews and gave good reports and dawgs were appreciative. Choose wisely.
3. Borrowing money for a future meet, but not answering phone or providing that free time. Unfortunately regulars tend to attempt this. Some touring ladies do this too.
4. Confides in you about a family sob story that requires money and time…..and includes it into a situation where she needs to leave early. Since you have seen her before she should be trusted.
Remedy: don’t do it. Keep the pillow talk on the pillow. She would not give you loaner vagina Tuesday for money paid on a Thursday. She shouldn’t expect that from you.
5. Takes Touring deposit but doesn’t come. Doesn’t pay back as fast and as efficient as you sent it. Doesn’t want to pay the fees to pay you back in full. If I paid you 1000 in advance, I don’t want 987.32. Maybe I’m petty party but still. Lol.