The Level of Intimacy Between 2 People

Intimacy has nothing to do with it. It is a moment of escape. Role play.
In a broader term I guess you can call it intimacy .
Not to get too anal about it, but those who want to run down the menu and force the issue, get actually less out of it than what they want .
An old and retired member from P once told me he goes to sessions and let the lady take over and do what she believes she is best at and comfortable with, and he gets the best of what she can offer.
It sounded like too little control over one's fantasy . Years later, I am learning from that wisdom. Originally Posted by Htowner

So true... if you come in rude, pushy, or otherwise acting an ass (only a slim amount of the clients I encounter, but they're out there) your mileage will definitely vary. We know what you want, and any provider worth her salt is more than willing to give it to you. Be a gentleman, relax, and don't always think that someone is out to scam you for your hard earned $$$. Let the session form on it's own to some extent, and you might be pleasantly surprised!


ThatManFromTexas
"... expecting a "Sofia" (and I mean this generically) to get as hot and bothered about a centenarian with a "Johnson" nick named "Old Leather" (... uh... that would be me...) showing up at her door as she would with a smooth talking, studly, DATY-Slathering ,female heart melting (and other female parts) Dear Hunter packing what appears on airport scanners as a rather large reptile (and I mean this generically) ... is well.. a pretty far fetched fantasy.."



Actually I find that older hobbyists that come see me are more satisfying and more sensual than the younger "studs" that feel like they have an obligation to try to knock the walls out. My mileage tend to go a little further with them...

All good comments Daphne...We appreciate the valuable input.

Nicole,
Are you saying that you have access to BCD in reviews? Originally Posted by boardman

Well, the first provider I ever saw just laughed when we were talking about ASPD BCD access. I'm willing to bet it's pretty common. Doesn't bother me. I would think there are some that don't particularly like this, but I think it's impossible to stop. Yeah, I'm sure this is earth shattering news... carry on... Originally Posted by CandidCajun

Uh, make that VERY common, sir. Originally Posted by bbkid

I wasn't on ASPD long before I came to the conclusion that all providers had BCD access. I always found the talk about White Knights, amusing.

What you are describing is plain and simple Chemistry. That is what makes the intimacy level rise amongst two people. Yes, it is different for most people and for some to ask why it is different for them from what they read, is to not understand what makes people connect with each other. YMMV is a correct way to describe it C.Cajun. Great post Nicole. Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

Intimacy has nothing to do with it. It is a moment of escape. Role play. In a broader term I guess you can call it intimacy .
...those who want to run down the menu and force the issue, get actually less out of it than what they want .
An old and retired member from P once told me he goes to sessions and let the lady take over and do what she believes she is best at and comfortable with, and he gets the best of what she can offer.
It sounded like too little control over one's fantasy. Years later, I am learning from that wisdom. Originally Posted by Htowner

with a new lady, my first question is what do you NOT like. I will know from her reviews unless I am TOFTT what her skills are. I like to let her start and go through her comfort zone unless she appears to be reticent or turns control over to me. Then I'll guide her through the time with the things that I like and that she is comfortable with. If she is a known submissive, then I'll fully lead.