Let me take it a step further. I believe that negative reviews are much more valuable than a pile of positive reviews...............
If it were me, I would totally out the lady that tried to upsell you. Thats total bullshit.
Anyway, sorry that lady stood you up. She sounds childish, immature and someone who isn't long for this business.
Originally Posted by Stick1969
Reviews are to be honest.......I'd never make a judgement solely on the words of other providers...I love them all dearly but everyone perceives things differently as well as handle them in their own way.
I think this post was unnecessary. It kind of puts the op out there as what I call "handle with care" ijs "my 2ct"
Originally Posted by Karrine_Kream
Best quotes of the whole thread. And realistic ones. I think Karrine Kremes comment about her preference in screening female reference percievication is more of an ethnic thing though.....but I won't touch on that right now. Lol
er, what? you think I'm white knighting her? b/c I won't call her out? I'm totally confused.
Originally Posted by gregster
Your not confused.....your just a tad gullible and pushover for chicks who play games. And that's ok.
I'm not saying your acting whiteknightish now because you won't out her.......but if your asking...........
I'm saying even from the start of her games and bad TCB you aided and abedded it.......case in point.
I scheduled an appointment earlier today with a provider - about 12 hours ago.
She pushed back our appointment once .......
Originally Posted by gregster
Not so much an issue. Things happen..........understandable .
or twice, no problem.
Originally Posted by gregster
Two pushbacks......nah. that just means she double booked and your just the "extra." She had no intention to see you anyways. And if you even want to see her at this point....... Hope you like your DATY to taste like trojans.......
This shit however would have been many guys breaking point in the transaction......
Then, 30 minutes before we were to meet - she calls me and says "oh you are gregster. You did a review on a friend of mine that " (I'll edit out the comments).
So, instead of so much, she said it would be double for her to see me!! Well, just about double.......
Originally Posted by gregster
After being told this.....most might wonder why. Maybe get hurt feelings or whatever maybe. But instead of declining, hanging up, or telling her to fuck off with her shitty last second TCB......you took it a step further. Kinda like a black guy pleading his case to an NBA provider about why he a safe black to see..............let's get deep into it shall we......
I told her I thought that was not fair, and offered to agree to a no review policy if she had concerns. Then she got rude and then she she hung up on me.
Originally Posted by gregster
You gave her the ultimate power and control over you and you willingly let her shit on you. Very BDSM dominating......your basically licking her shoe now. She could have easily just declined and kept it professional.....but no. She wanted to make a point for her friend.........because of your honesty about her friends shitty performance in a review.
However, that said, if you are going to screen, screen BEFORE confirming the appointment. BEFORE I've waited all day to see you.
Originally Posted by gregster
One of the reasons I never do a negative review. Like my momma told me ... "If you can't say something good - don't say nothin'"
Originally Posted by Arverni
So gregster you rant and complain about being treated unfairly.....and wronged and such. Writing so passionately about it with your capitalization and big fonts and such........and now you say.....if something like this occurs in the future (or you have a shitty time or experience like Averni suggested, you won't write a "no" review) you won't post info on the provider who put you through these shenanigans. If everyone did that we would all have to experience what you had to indure. And your just fine with that.
So, I guess I'm blacklisted in certain circles. I guess you are bound to make enemies in this world if you have principles and you stick by them. I stand by my reviews. They were not mean nor "slamming" anyone. They were my honest opinion. And I'm sticking to them regardless.
Originally Posted by gregster
Your not sticking to shit now. Your willing to change your whole stance on reviews and "telling it like it is" all because a lady or two won't see you based off another ladys shitty given experience and cosign. Talking about your only gonna post good reviews.....and refrain from posting shitty ones that Averni suggested to you and you agreed with.
I like all kinds of reviews, good and bad. No such thing as having too much data. I especially think reviews that point out ymmv are helpful. If all reviews are positive, one would never know about possible downers.
Originally Posted by mriley000
Can Ole Shelton look to the future and tell you how this trend of flowery all-positive reviews may come out?
Originally Posted by SHELTON
Oh please let me.........
If anything that shows that your new reviews and reports from here on out won't be as objective; because you will only touch on the good points......no flaws. Because your worried too much about pleasing, pandering, and pampering the pussy. And that's ok. And that's ok some guys like their life cream whipped.
If you truthfully wasn't worried about what a providers would say.....you would just post the review or report. Anything I say in a review Ill gladly say to a ladys face. I personally post that way. If another lady wouldn't want to see me based on the way I wrote another ladys review.......I take it as a foreshadowing clue she couldn't provide the type of experience I want anyways. I call it hobby karma. Seeing that chick might block my blessings from seeing another lady who was more suited to me. If the review system was always good reviews with no "no" reviews....or ymmv.......things would or couls be misleading. Especially to guys reading your reviews.
Real business savy providers have their own means of screening in place. All session are ymmv. One ladys bad time might be anothers good time. There are ugly sides to the hobby. One lady you might have a good session with might be pissed if you don't see her again, maybe one will shit on you with references so that you can only see them in your difficulty seeing new ladies, etc. Most ladys are not gonna have their money revenue dictated necessarily by another ladys bad review. They may ponder it and take it into consideration but if they are talented......they won't even concern themselves with it.
I promise to give you a chance to address any concerns I have before writing a review, or to not write a review if you request up front. In short, I promise to treat you all the right way, because its the right thing to do.
Originally Posted by gregster
Say what you really feel. Just say I won't write a no review again. Even if its a "bad day" for you.....or a shitty time.....I won't post shit. Ill sulk about it privately........and post aynonomous rants and such......but I won't do anything. Walk all over me.
I feel you. I am Banned from seeing a provider by one of the guys on the board (apparently he didn't like something I said)......
I learned to just move on and keep having fun.
Originally Posted by disilene
Don't worry that was just her pimp. If he isn't her pimp he has potential to be one since she's so easily controlled. Dictating transactions for some pussy he doesn't even own. I guess being a regular has its advantages.......and fringe benefits.
Hey, thanks for the comment. My review was actually intended to help a young provider improve her service.
I got almost a dozen messages of people who felt the same way. If she took my review to heart and changed just a few basic things she would have the opportunity for more business and to charge more money.
I'll take your advice - moving on.
Originally Posted by gregster
Yep so your hoping dozens of other guys go through this similar hassle you did. Makes sense........
Oh, a small update:
The $300 turned into $1,000 (I'm a pretty good poker player)
So, I'm in the process of scheduling a few appointments with nice tips.... going to spread around the winnings!
Originally Posted by gregster
See. Provider karma......ones shitty experience will lends itself to others ladies being more capable.