Perf,
Please accept my apology. Earlier, I'll admit to being in a great mood and sometimes that translates into being a smartass. I should have recognized that you're new to the board (welcome, btw) and that my comments wouldn't have been received well. Shame on me.
Second, please note that Meg and Dannie are friends of mine and are naturally protective. Trust me, both could fall into the category of "best" and they're both really great women.
So back on topic. Really, everyone is stating the same thing. Research and doing all of the fun stuff leading up to finding that perfect someone sincerely is a lot of enjoyment as well!
Explore this board while figuring out "who" to explore! And enjoy the journey! Good luck!
Elisabeth
P.S. The next time you want to volley back and forth with someone who has been around for awhile, do it hard and low. I have a pretty thick skin and it doesn't bother me. Remember, shoot it back hard, biting and low. Big girls REALLY like that sort of thing!