Reminder.... especially new guys....

I have helped two providers that I have come to know more than once.
If I feel compelled to help I will and I never anticipated anything in return.
As long as they don't continually take advantage of it I'm happy to help.
I always figured if they needed it bad enough to have to ask they wouldn't be in a position to repay anytime soon and I didn't worry about.
One of them who is no longer in the business and moved to another stay has remained a very close friend. We see each other once a year as FWB.

I have pride issues... I'd rather earn it and KEEP everything.

a fool and their money is soon parted Originally Posted by motor

I have never met you nor have I ever had a cross word with you. You don't know me yet you put me down at every opportunity. I am not the one who made you a bitter person. Please quit taking it out on me.

Having a heart doesn't make me a fool. Nor am I more foolish than anyone else who cared enough to trust someone to do right by them. Why single me out?

I know you want to embarrass me and make me look stupid in front of my eccie peers. Well it is working. Thanks Originally Posted by KittyLamour

No, miss, it is not working.

Your post is lovely.

I have been on both sides of the story and I think you play the game you take your chances. I have advanced money and been paid back in cash or services. I have advanced funds and never seen or heard from them again. If you can't afford to lose it don't loan ANYONE money hooker or not.

Next time a provider says she needs money just have her fuck you and pay her no problems. No session no money with a few exceptions and I think you know who you are ;-)

Been there, done that ^^^^^^^^^^^ never works out

I need a provider to give me a session on credit.
I promise to pay you back next week
or the week after that
or the week after that

CG

I hate threads like this! Reminds me of how stupid I am. Loaned one quite a bit of money recently Originally Posted by hammer head

I'm more stupid! I actually allow my Penis to choose which ladies to see, and how much to pay!

oh wait, I guess all us guys here do that..

I've actually done it once, the whole 'advance' thing, and immediately felt like a sucker afterwards (like the Tom and Jerry thing where their heads turn into a sucker). But she actually made good on it a few days later. Turned out to be a pleasant surprise.

Of course, I'm not saying I'd do it again. Actually felt lucky that things broke the right way.

If only the world were perfect, my unicorn is the perfect provider or FWB or SO or well you get the idea LOL

We have the long timers & short timers on here blasting away with expert advice and BS. So, if you help a regular out, which I haven't had to do in a long time, (dang dancers :-), consider it at gift of your play money. Thankfully mine worked out and they are ok in the RW.

But omfg, don't go playing the crying game and blast her on here, unless you have no class..then post away. If you don't have play money don't fkn play.

The ladies & gents on here are all a roll of the dice ,no matter how much research the experts do. Just hope we can all find and keep the awesome keepers

Ive been dumb stupid too many times. Girls now have, thanks to my weird sense of chivalry a condo, a car, a weeks stay at hotel. None paid back in full and one completely blew me off. One I can name Nicole Cox made her promise GOOD and was definitely a delight. Read my review. Just saying not all are inconsiderate. Some are absolute scammers. And to add +1 for Kiera Sweets or Along came Honey. She is golden.

The idea of this post was to disseminate information that could be helpful to fellow hobbyist. There is a daily recruitment of new members and perhaps a warning of this nature could save them some grief. As to naming the provider,, perhaps later. I don't see her as a threat if you have a no advance pay policy. Tsmokes seems to think to name her is being a whiny little bitch. haha Additionally, he has made it clear he has plenty money to piss away. Good for you sir... Arrogance becomes you..

A potential "provider" actually asked me for money before I was considering seeing her. Saying that some one robbed her. I kindly told her that i didnt feel comfortable doing that and she got mad. I decided not to see her anymore. I'm not a fool, i know how the game works, Hell i used to date a stripper. Fool me once, shame on you and well u know the rest.

in general I agree with treating it as fun money and/or money to your kids. do not count on being paid back.

do not lend out your mortgage pmt

on the other hand, I have more debts honored than lost.

call me goofy, but I truly believe there are lots of ladies on here that honor debts, problem is you have to trust them first.

Problem (for me, anyway) is that if I hadn't trusted them in the first place, I wouldn't have lent them the money. The lesson (again, for me): Trust no one.