Providers on Dating sites

Becca can you really date in the normal life?

My female friends tell me that even nice guys will text a pic of their dick after about the 3rd message. It seems to be a pretty common thing. Some guys say it works.

Personally I dont send naughty pics unless they send them first. I figure if they are lucky they will get to see it in time.

i guess my next question is would you date a hobbiest?

i guess my next question is would you date a hobbiest? Originally Posted by Dick BadCock

Just not any hobbiest! I would be open to dating as long as we have an "open relationship". Now if we ever got exclusive to each other, that would be a really big can of worms!

i guess my next question is would you date a hobbiest? Originally Posted by Dick BadCock

I have tried it a few times with single hobbyists that intrigue me, but then decided not to do it anymore.

Well, then this charming hobbyist pursued me hard for months and I finally gave in. He talked a good game and I fell hard for him. He then decided we could no longer date because of my profession (but still wanted it free and doesn't understand why I wouldn't even see him as a client after all this). It took me about six months to get over him.

Yeah a good friend and I made the fatal and dumb mistake of posting our Match.com ads with the same pix that we used on our regular escort ads and apparently a lot of Match guys troll the escort sites.So they wanted to know if it was a 'free' date or if they had to pay to meet us on Match.com

Just not any hobbiest! I would be open to dating as long as we have an "open relationship". Now if we ever got exclusive to each other, that would be a really big can of worms! Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Would my wife have to know??

Why shouldn't the ladies go on eharmony or match.com for dating purposes? That is, if they want to try a relationship ... I hope the ladies are smart enough to use different photos to separate their identities for the hobby and real life, that means no taint photos on dating sites. Why shouldn't they want someone of their own? Not all have dogs ...

I heard and read that more than 50% of the men on the dating sites are married.

In fact, that is how I met my SD (I was in SD/SB relationship before I started providing).

He was married and on a dating site. We had this amazing chemistry, but I told him that I would not date a married man (I was looking for something that would possibly turn into me getting married), well, he made me an offer I could not refuse

So, men who think providers on a dating site looking for clients - what do you think of the 50% or more of the men being married? Originally Posted by gigi_gypsy

Let's not mix things up here. Sugar Daddy sites ARE NOT dating sites. Match.com is a dating site, but Seeking Arrangement.com isn't. I'm married and have a sugar baby, which somewhere between romantic "dating" and the hobby. A friends with benefits agreement that must not become permanent. I don't think providers generally do well on those sites. The men on them are looking for something more personal and exclusive than the hobby vice having an escort on retainer.

Years ago on ASPD me and one of the NOLA ladies somehow got on the topic of dating sites. She actually turned me on to Plentyoffish. I have heard of other ladies being on dating sites to.
I am just curious how common is it? How many of you ladies are on dating sites. How many of you are looking for serious dating? Originally Posted by Dick BadCock

I'm not on any dating sites, but I get asked all the time if I'm looking for a boyfriend, to which I rspond I am not. I guess I'm having too much fun living a life of debauchery, freedom and experience, lol. I believe providers and hobbyists, (contrary to what is believed by the general public) are very progressive people with more life experience on human behavior then the average Joe/Jane. However, the truth is....if I met my soulmate tomorrow, (and I believe you KNOW when you meet him/her) I'd be happy to settle down with my best friend for life. Meeting your souldmate isn't forced, one sided, or stalkerish. It's a mutual thing that just happens and comes natural. But thats the thing, it would have to come to me, fate if you will. Only time will tell.

Yeah a good friend and I made the fatal and dumb mistake of posting our Match.com ads with the same pix that we used on our regular escort ads and apparently a lot of Match guys troll the escort sites.So they wanted to know if it was a 'free' date or if they had to pay to meet us on Match.com Originally Posted by alluringava

Funny story I actually shared a few months back on TER. I was chatting with a girl on POF and after a few weeks we met up for some drinks on a week night. So after about 6-10 drinks later we decided to go back to my place and we made crazy sex. Well, it was dark in the bar and dark in my bed but the next morning I saw a tattoo that looked familiar and I started to think about an escort I saw over a year before. Now I wasn't sure and didn't want to ask for obvious reasons (hey are you that hooker I fucked a year ago?) but couldn't shake the feeling. So a week later we hooked up again and went back to her place I wasn't sure but when I was there her computer was flashing her pics and bam I saw the pics she had posted on backpage. So then I am like wtf do I say? I banged you once but the sex sucked so I never called you back?

Long story short we had some fun but eventually I told her. She then got all weird on me and we quit talking. Her job obviously didn't bother me but I also would need to know it was in her past and I think she might have still been providing on a part time basis. Too bad.

Would my wife have to know?? Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

I only date single men .
I go on an escapade with the married ones.

I heard and read that more than 50% of the men on the dating sites are married.

In fact, that is how I met my SD (I was in SD/SB relationship before I started providing).

He was married and on a dating site. We had this amazing chemistry, but I told him that I would not date a married man (I was looking for something that would possibly turn into me getting married), well, he made me an offer I could not refuse

So, men who think providers on a dating site looking for clients - what do you think of the 50% or more of the men being married? Originally Posted by gigi_gypsy

Let's not mix things up here. Sugar Daddy sites ARE NOT dating sites. Match.com is a dating site, but Seeking Arrangement.com isn't. I'm married and have a sugar baby, which somewhere between romantic "dating" and the hobby. A friends with benefits agreement that must not become permanent. I don't think providers generally do well on those sites. The men on them are looking for something more personal and exclusive than the hobby vice having an escort on retainer. Originally Posted by Energy

It was on a DATING site - match.com (I was looking for something that would possibly turn into me getting married).

I've never been on a SD/SB or arrangement site. Nothing against them - I've never been.

Again, studies show that over 50% of men on DATING sites are married.

interesting stories.