I like it best when I reach out to stroke a brow or touch a face and there is sheer and absolute electricity there..... Fu**ing WOW....Cassidy somehow I really know what you mean. :-)
So, does not matter first time or repeat, if it's there, it's there and it can’t be faked. I do very much like it when those I really connect with repeat! Originally Posted by CassidyBlue
- guest040711-1
- 09-11-2009, 12:32 PM
- SummerBella
- 09-11-2009, 02:33 PM
SP - Cassidy certainly has that "wow" factor doesn't she..............totally amazing
- CassidyBlue
- 09-11-2009, 11:02 PM
Yes SP, you certainly do as that electricity flows both ways..... 
Bella~ You my friend, are a true jewel...
Bella~ You my friend, are a true jewel...
- Chevalier
- 09-12-2009, 10:29 PM
At this point in my P4P odyssey, chemistry is very highly valued. Which can be chemistry with several ladies in the rotation, thus maintaining some degree of variety as well.
Of course, chemistry sometimes fades and ladies sometime retire. Not to mention that there's probably room for one more in the rotation. So I occasionally check new "prospects.". Unfortunately, it's virtually impossible to predict. At best, you can weed out some low probability ladies. Even with careful consideration, the percentage of new prospects who turn out to have that chemistry is relatively low. Of course, chemistry is a two-way street, so that may say more about me than about them. But I rarely see someone for the first time unless I think there's a reasonable possibility of that chemistry. And with occasional exceptions I probably don't see a lady more than once or twice unless there are indications that chemistry is developing.
I'm probably decreasing the extent of seeing new prospects in recent years. At some point, I lose the enthusiasm for "blind dating" with a low probability of success. I haven't found a good way of increasing the odds; even socials (when I went to them) didn't help much. Or maybe it's just that there aren't many ladies who are good matches for me -- again, more about me than about them.
Of course, chemistry sometimes fades and ladies sometime retire. Not to mention that there's probably room for one more in the rotation.
So I occasionally check new "prospects.". Unfortunately, it's virtually impossible to predict. At best, you can weed out some low probability ladies. Even with careful consideration, the percentage of new prospects who turn out to have that chemistry is relatively low. Of course, chemistry is a two-way street, so that may say more about me than about them. But I rarely see someone for the first time unless I think there's a reasonable possibility of that chemistry. And with occasional exceptions I probably don't see a lady more than once or twice unless there are indications that chemistry is developing. I'm probably decreasing the extent of seeing new prospects in recent years. At some point, I lose the enthusiasm for "blind dating" with a low probability of success. I haven't found a good way of increasing the odds; even socials (when I went to them) didn't help much. Or maybe it's just that there aren't many ladies who are good matches for me -- again, more about me than about them.
- TinMan
- 09-12-2009, 10:41 PM
I'm at the same stage as Chevalier, I think, and have been for the past several years. I tore it up back in the day, but now that I've pretty much seen it all I like to settle in with one or two regulars with whom I really connect.
Having said that, I always seem to be looking for my next ATF. In fact, I'm currently accepting applications...LOL!
Having said that, I always seem to be looking for my next ATF. In fact, I'm currently accepting applications...LOL!