Do providers take 'regulars' for granted

I might not be able to chime in on OP's but I do have a problem with regulars taking me time and generosity for granted. But when it comes to that it's best to take a break for a few months so they can stop being so jaded when it comes to my company. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Maybe she is thinking like Skylar,
I would give it a thought after the first time she started slipping.
Since it is getting worse I would replace her. You have seen her
for a while and she should always have you wanting more not pushing
you out the door.

Move on. I've had to do that with a couple of regulars and it's all part of this game we play. They just become so complacent that it's not so special any longer. Believe me, there's another one that will "tickle your fancy".

Then again, do the guys take the ladies for granted? Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Absolutely we do!!! It's a two way street. We (guys) have a tendency to take the lady and her favors for granted. It's just human nature.

Exactly.... some expect more
UOTE=DEAR_JOHN;2013183]Then again, do the guys take the ladies for granted?[/QUOTE]

With so much action in Houston why whine about one, it's fun sometimes finding another playmate Originally Posted by carkido45

Damn it Carkido, just when I'm convinced you are a complete douchetard(new word fro the hole) you break out with some sensible logic like this. WTF?

Thanks for the advice guys. Deep down, I think I already knew what had to be done. I may have the chat but it won't be anytime soon. Too much talent in our area for me to accept/settle on this type of service.

There actually a couple of providers who I used to enjoy seeing that have left the game. I feel shady trying to pull them out of retirement lol. But going about that is whole other coed discussion..."How to pull retired ATFs out of retirement"!!

The fantasy is over when you need to "have a talk".....move on.

I might not be able to chime in on OP's but I do have a problem with regulars taking me time and generosity for granted. But when it comes to that it's best to take a break for a few months so they can stop being so jaded when it comes to my company. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

+1 Miss Cruz

To answer the OPs original question...yes many providers will take advantage of regulars.

To have a talk with her about her services will just be waisting both of your times. Your best bet is to move on and find another.

If your still interested in seeing her give her some time off and maybe she'll come around but it will be short lived.

Many talk about the "Fantasy Thing", but more important than that is having fun.

When you pay your money and later you have to ask yourself if you had a good time, then it is definetally time to move on. We all say it will never happen, even in marriages, but with a 50% divorce rate, the odds are not on your side.

Life is too darned short to be wasting it on things that are not enjoyable.

I would rather be broke at the end of the day but damned happy than have a pocket full of money and wondering why I can't have any fun.

I think the answer depends on you. You like her, but her service gone downhill? Then I agree with CivilBarrister, communicate with her. Maybe something is going on in her life and it is affecting her service. Then decide based on her response.

Out of Bounds, painfully true

Damn it Carkido, just when I'm convinced you are a complete douchetard(new word fro the hole) you break out with some sensible logic like this. WTF? Originally Posted by boardman

Only logical explanation is that someone hacked his account...

Anyway, CK45's point is right on the money.

In response to the OP's question, I have noticed that with SOME providers that do only FBSM, the first session draws the massage part out longer to where the session length ends up about as advertised. Many of these R&T girls aren't really giving much of a massage, more of just a lotion application. It seems as if the girls take a longer massage to "feel out" whether you are safe to escalate with. Subsequent visits often shorten or eliminate the perfunctory massage to where you are basically walk in, get naked and get a HJ.

Just what I have noticed.

I agree with several of the posts suggesting that you try someone else out and see if variety is truly the spice of life that it claims to be.

Yep. Absolutely doodally. I won't repeat what has already been stated. Instead, I just want to make a point to the ladies reading this: repeat business is much cheaper and easier to get than ads and such for new clients.. at least that is my take. And, if you have a client who you know is "safe' and pays, why not take care of him? No LE issues, no short pays, no fake money, and especially if assuming he is polite. My last regular went downhill, too.... I really think she was getting burned out, though, as she retired soon thereafter. So, to the ladies, why not try a little harder with repeats.... and if you are having a bad day or week, why not be honest with a repeat client and tell him so and reschedule for a better time?

quite frankly in this busniness everything is for granted just as in a long term relationship. I see a provider who will not me do Daty but will provide MSOG, but on the other hand I have seen providers who will pretty much let you do anything but only one pop. It is the variety in this business that keeps all of us going so do not be disheartened but make a call if you want to move on. There are plenty to choose from. Some of them are just great as you come across.

Yep. Absolutely doodally. I won't repeat what has already been stated. Instead, I just want to make a point to the ladies reading this: repeat business is much cheaper and easier to get than ads and such for new clients.. at least that is my take. And, if you have a client who you know is "safe' and pays, why not take care of him? No LE issues, no short pays, no fake money, and especially if assuming he is polite. My last regular went downhill, too.... I really think she was getting burned out, though, as she retired soon thereafter. So, to the ladies, why not try a little harder with repeats.... and if you are having a bad day or week, why not be honest with a repeat client and tell him so and reschedule for a better time? Originally Posted by GentlemanTexan

The smart ones always do.