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Actually wendlo, you're wrong. My last two SBS were very happy with $800/month. We spent about 7 or 8 hours per week together, about half of that BCD.

You are right in other ways though. It's the emotional detachment that differentiates a SB from a GF (one of the things at least). And the SB sites suck. Mostly hookers on them.

To the OPs original post, he's describing a hooker, not a SB. Originally Posted by slinmo

Wow... The four ladies i met only wanted gifts without the fun time.

Those I have met all had similar experiences to mine.. You have been very fortunate..
On the average those I know had horrible experiences.
You do realize what you just said is wrong... A SB is looking for stability with their living expenses without the ties to an emotional commitment.

There isnt one out there willing to spend an hour or two a day playing for a six or eight hundred a month gift if they were they would get a boyfriend or husband. They want the stability without the commitment just like us to give them the freedom they desire to do what they want.

from the experiences I have had dont get involved with the SB sites. When I first contemplated it I had three pages of messages from clients and ladies informing me what would happen I still had to try and hey they were on the money. Find a couple of ladies you like to hang out with and stick with them. Originally Posted by wendlo
You couldn't be more right and wrong at the same time. Yes a SB is looking for stability with her living expenses....but to a young 20 something who makes $10/hr...even working full time...$800 a month tax free is a 50% increase in her monthly take home income. Imagine how much better your life would be right now if your net after tax income suddenly increased 50%?

Yes......most won't want to play 1-2 hr's every single day...but I ain't got time for that shit either.

Lemme break it down for you real quick...This month I will see my current SB 6 times during the day.....assuming we go BCD on the next two times......it will be 5/6 times BCD....average visit is 2-4 hrs including lunch. On top of that I will have 2 overnight visits....all for $700 in monthly support + some gifts of my choosing +lunch/dinner costs....Maybe total of $1300 this month.

Say you convert the money spent on gifts/lunches to an all cash deal....show me even one decent looking hooker whose gonna give you 5-6 clockless afternoon sessions + 2 overnights a month for $1300....much less show me a smoking hot one whose gonna bare-back you and let you cum in her pussy?

Like I said....you gotta learn to play the game!
Go read the stickies in the SB forum and look up the definition of Sugar Baby Originally Posted by slinmo
Exactly THIS. When I first got on SA I still had the ECCIE mindset....and all I was getting was hookers....because I was approaching all the girls on there like they were hookers.

Once I re-read all the stickies and followed them to a T...almost no more hookers.

There's 100's pages of posts already on this forum explaining how to play the game right..you just gotta take the time and put in effort to learn....and stop messaging girls "how much to lick my asshole while I jerk off into a fleshlight"
Exactly THIS. When I first got on SA I still had the ECCIE mindset....and all I was getting was hookers....because I was approaching all the girls on there like they were hookers.

Once I re-read all the stickies and followed them to a T...almost no more hookers.

There's 100's pages of posts already on this forum explaining how to play the game right..you just gotta take the time and put in effort to learn....and stop messaging girls "how much to lick my asshole while I jerk off into a fleshlight" Originally Posted by boredinsatx
LOL

Plus I re-read OP's post. If you can't spring for the membership, you don't have enough for a SB.

"Hey, I'm looking for a SB - I have a spare 20 or 30 bucks a month."
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There is, by definition, no such thing. Originally Posted by slinmo
I guess I should have stuck a smiley face at the end of my comment. Here you go . . .

Wow... The four ladies i met only wanted gifts without the fun time.

Those I have met all had similar experiences to mine.. You have been very fortunate..
On the average those I know had horrible experiences. Originally Posted by wendlo
Sounds to me like you need a new approach. I suggest that you, and everyone, read the Get off the Computer stickie in the SB forum. Read it, believe it, do it - it works.
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So which sugarbaby website has the hottest youngest cheapest hookers?
None of them, and all of them. Stick to eccie or a reputable escort site. If you really need to save the $20 or $30 difference, either take your chances with BP, reduce your visits per month or take up collecting porn videos.

After all, sex is like a gas station. You can buck up for full service or save money and go self service
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So which sugarbaby website has the hottest youngest cheapest hookers? Originally Posted by H.R. Humpendump
You know how I know you are a poor, broke bastard looking for cheap whores?

Maybe go on BP and score one. You can get a few deals there.
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Don't feed the

TROLL!
You couldn't be more right and wrong at the same time. Yes a SB is looking for stability with her living expenses....but to a young 20 something who makes $10/hr...even working full time...$800 a month tax free is a 50% increase in her monthly take home income. Imagine how much better your life would be right now if your net after tax income suddenly increased 50%?

! Originally Posted by boredinsatx
That is what I thought to.... I thought find a young lady or college lady that was struggling with a full time job or a young single mom. we all know how that is.. no benefits almost a thousand a month on daycare alone food if the kid is young diapers..at forty cents a pop that is a chunk of change.. if she was willing to hang out for a gift that would take the stress off of her already stressful situation that she would be way ahead..for a few short hours a month hanging out rather than being forced into working two or more jobs.. then again for a single mom heck a single mom has trouble keeping a job when she doesn't have anyone to lean on with a sick child employers don't care if your kid gets sick and daycare won't let them stay your sunk you are forced to stay home. a college lady well lets face it.. just out of college school loans due.. you almost have to have two or more jobs just to pay the school loans.. so I thought heck this could be a win win for everyone concerned... But.. it didn't work out that way.. at least not around here.. and from what I have learned from so many others that ventured into the Sugar daddy and sugar baby world that they experienced the same things I did with their journey.. The ladies that really needed the gifts and put ad's up liked the idea of having someone that would be there for them and to take the trouble to help them when they could through the rough spots ... but on the average they didn't particularly like the idea of hanging out with the sugar daddy in exchange.
Or compromise their principles..for a few gifts.. or disrupt their busy life for someone else.. I don't blame them.. but it is what it is..
I am going to stick by my first advice the same advice that I had so many people write me to give.. don't join one of the sites.. it is money down the drain.. don't even consider being a sugar. stick with hanging out with a few of the beautiful and sweet ladies here that are more than willing to hang out for a while with you.
you will be happier overall..
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I think sugarbabies can be just as good or bad as what you find on Backpage. I have found some gems on BP, and some duds. I currently have a sugarbaby thing going with the hottest girl I have ever been with. But she is bipolar lol. When she is in the right mood, it is the hottest sex with the hottest chick. When she isn't, it is like fucking a blowup doll. Granted a hot blow up doll, but you get the point. Point is, these experiences can be different things to different people. You just gotta hang on to the good ones as long as you can.