Didn't upset me at all actually. I really did laugh. I laugh at things I find ironic. I will admit that I misunderstood the (above). So the rest of my post is moot with possible exception of the part about casually mentioning that you know about her kid. In any event, apologies for the rest of the misunderstanding.
Originally Posted by johnnylongcaulking
It's okay. I would never out anyone for anything. The silly/ironic thing was, when she threatened me, she said she knew my kids, wife (didn't have one) etc and implied I would be outted and it was obvious she didn't know me at all. At the same time, she didn't realize I see her at least once a week in real life (not mentioning where) and that if I were a douchebag, I would have turned it all around on her in her mail to me. But there's no way I'd ever consider something like that. She is a real person, with real feelings and I think this hobby creates more misgivings and misunderstandings than it should between all of us and I let that pass. Besides, innocent people shouldn't have to pay the price for our mistakes. From me, there is zero subtle threat nor did I want to imply such, because it will never happen (I'm not like that). I only mentioned it for color to illustrate the ironic part of her PM threat to me.
I probably overthink these things, but life/experience has wired me that way.
Sorry the way I structured my paragraph in the original post made it look like I was pointing someone specifically out. I wasn't at all and wouldn't ever. I actually like the gal and want her to be successful both here and in real life.
Take care and have a great weekend.