CBJ or BBBJ whats it going to be?

This is a horrible poll. Which was designed around a guy that clearly wants to change ladies minds. I dont have a choice above because of this bias. Yes i would prefer bbbj but i dont because i dont want any diseases. "I prefer cbj" should be change to "i choose cbj to protect myself".

This poll isn't going to change anyone's mind any more than you can argue someone from being a Baptist to being a Methodist, and for pretty much the same reason.

Those of us who got married in the 70's may not have used a condom since we were 16, and it's hard enough to get a good orgasm in your 60's. With a raincoat, you're really adding insult to injury.

The issue at hand is how much business might a provider lose by only offering CBJ. Many start with CBJ then change in short notice. Some state CBJ but offer it to certain regulars or its YMMV. Let's see what the poll results are! Originally Posted by Still Looking

My question is; why is this even an issue? It's the provider's choice to offer whatever she's comfortable offering, so if it's not to your liking, don't see her. Seems pretty simple to me.

What business is it of anyone's, with exception of that particular providers, how much business she may or may not be losing by offering what she, herself, is comfortable in offering?

Do you honestly thinck that a poll is going to sway that decision?

Surely that's not the intent here, is it -- to try and persuade her to do something she's not comfortable in doing?

But lets say that this does sway her decision and she starts offering bbbjs...how good do you honestly believe it's going to be having her grugingly suck your bare dick?

Personally, I'd prefer to let the gal do whatever she's most comfortable in doing. If she's comfortable in only offering cbj's , I'll respect that decision and act accordingly.

I just have a hard time wrapping my brain around why this is even an issue for anyone, other than her.

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As a provider, I can't do CBJ. I'm not sure if it's the latex, lube or the spermicide, but something about condoms numbs my mouth and tastes horrible. And a taste that I can't get rid of for a while.
I agree, however, that it is the lady's choice. And nobody should try to force her to do something that she is uncomfortable with.

This is a horrible poll. Which was designed around a guy that clearly wants to change ladies minds. I dont have a choice above because of this bias. Yes i would prefer bbbj but i dont because i dont want any diseases. "I prefer cbj" should be change to "i choose cbj to protect myself". Originally Posted by mediavolume

Yet your reviews say you have enjoyed BBBJ... LOL

I could do without BBBJ if Greek is an option.


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My question is; why is this even an issue? It's the provider's choice to offer whatever she's comfortable offering, so if it's not to your liking, don't see her. Seems pretty simple to me.

What business is it of anyone's, with exception of that particular providers, how much business she may or may not be losing by offering what she, herself, is comfortable in offering?

Do you honestly thinck that a poll is going to sway that decision?

Surely that's not the intent here, is it -- to try and persuade her to do something she's not comfortable in doing?

But lets say that this does sway her decision and she starts offering bbbjs...how good do you honestly believe it's going to be having her grugingly suck your bare dick?

Personally, I'd prefer to let the gal do whatever she's most comfortable in doing. If she's comfortable in only offering cbj's , I'll respect that decision and act accordingly.

I just have a hard time wrapping my brain around why this is even an issue for anyone, other than her.

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

SKF nobody gives a flying rats ass what you or I think. The poll is to establish guys preferences. Most guys reviews already do actually with few exceptions. The ladies will do what they want with the information. Nothing to "wrap your brain around". You can take the poll information, print it out and go to any Starbucks and give it to the manager. He in turn will give you a large coffee with room for cream for just over $2.00. Hell of a deal!

As long as we have a choice, both sides, then we should respect that.

For example in the European Laufhauses, CBJ is all you are going to get, but you get BBBJ at the FKK places. Both seem to "survive" some are even within a few miles of each other....

Same here... Gents have a choice, the Ladies have a choice. Respect and choose accordingly ...
... and if a Lady who offers BBBJ does not want to do a CBJ, don't complain either !!!

CIM anyone ???

Oh, well then I stand corrected. I was under the impression that the "issue at hand", was how much business cbj providers might have been losing by only offering cbjs.

Don't know where I got that from...??

The issue at hand is how much business might a provider lose by only offering CBJ. Many start with CBJ then change in short notice. Some state CBJ but offer it to certain regulars or its YMMV. Let's see what the poll results are! Originally Posted by Still Looking

But if you say that the purpose of this is to determine guys preference, who am I to argue?

Even though it's a no-brainer...but, nonetheless, carry on.


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SKF nobody gives a flying rats ass what you or I think. The poll is to establish guys preference Originally Posted by Still Looking

Guys' preferences? Bareback everything all day everyday. Minus STIs. Minus babies. Minus dick hurts. It's not just dudes. Latex is lame, but necessary. The decision to be safer at sex is up to each person involved in the sex.

Geez, why do people keep posting public polls? Make them private.

As long as we have a choice, both sides, then we should respect that.

For example in the European Laufhauses, CBJ is all you are going to get, but you get BBBJ at the FKK places. Both seem to "survive" some are even within a few miles of each other....

Same here... Gents have a choice, the Ladies have a choice. Respect and choose accordingly ...
... and if a Lady who offers BBBJ does not want to do a CBJ, don't complain either !!!

CIM anyone ??? Originally Posted by fun2come

The only constant in the hobby world is change.

Back in the mid-80's (during the AIDS frenzy) I hobbied in both eastern and western Europe. If you were to pull out a condom with a provider back then it would have been a short date. At the time the conventional wisdom said wanting to use a condom indicated YOU had an STD!

My how times have changed.

CBJ whores BBBJ just like CFS whores bare back.

Most don't like to advertise it and unless a guy asks he simply never knows. Especially with the pimped girls.

Your a whore running a business and you are ALWAYS going to experience potential clients that will ask for more than you advertise. Get the fuck over it and move on. Originally Posted by Whispers

You bet your ass I will get over it and move on. Show up at my incall and ask me for BBFS, and I smile all the way to the bank. I will bounce your nasty ass out of my incall so fast your head will spin, and meanwhile, I do NOT do refunds for dumb asses who think my life and health takes a back seat to their nut. So go ahead and ask. I won't complain about earning some easy money.

The only constant in the hobby world is change.

Back in the mid-80's (during the AIDS frenzy) I hobbied in both eastern and western Europe. If you were to pull out a condom with a provider back then it would have been a short date. At the time the conventional wisdom said wanting to use a condom indicated YOU had an STD!

My how times have changed. Originally Posted by Hollis Wood

Wow, interesting! It is always interesting to hear little tid bits about how things were in the past versus today. Thanks for sharing.

Just as the trans put TS in their name, I think CBJ only providers should be putting it in their handle.

Oh, well then I stand corrected. I was under the impression that the "issue at hand", was how much business cbj providers might have been losing by only offering cbjs.

Don't know where I got that from...??




But if you say that the purpose of this is to determine guys preference, who am I to argue?

Even though it's a no-brainer...but, nonetheless, carry on.


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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

SKF.... I thought the following statement was pretty clear as to what the poll was to determine.

"Hopefully the poll will be an honest representation of what the guys want."

How much business a provider excludes herself from is a byproduct of the poll results. The poll sure surprised me. I can't believe how many guys prefer BBBJ but are still willing to see a CBJ subject to looks and skills. I would have never guessed that. Especially every time I or anyone posts a review of a CBJ provider it seems to be littered with the "fuck that", "pass" "CBJ for how much", 'Not Me" or a number of other variations showing displeasure.