Top seven things black clients say to try to coerce an NBA provider to see them.I've never said ANY of the above but I have heard #7, from a few providers
1. "I'm not black black." I'm a safe black.
2. "I am black, but I'm black with references. Just checking........"
3. I"'m not overly equipt like the typical african american man, I'm of normal and average length and girth. No magnums necessary please...."
4. "I wanna change your thoughts an opinions on how black clients are or can be. See me and Ill set things straight."
5. " I'm mixed so I'm not fully black......can I just get a half hour session then."
6."but baby......its black history month"
7. "I won't write a review of our time, that way your white clients who prefer seeing only providers with NBA policies won't stop seeing you. Originally Posted by gimme_that
Top seven things black clients say to try to coerce an NBA provider to see them.
1. "I'm not black black." I'm a safe black.
2. "I am black, but I'm black with references. Just checking........"
3. I"'m not overly equipt like the typical african american man, I'm of normal and average length and girth. No magnums necessary please...."
4. "I wanna change your thoughts an opinions on how black clients are or can be. See me and Ill set things straight."
5. " I'm mixed so I'm not fully black......can I just get a half hour session then."
6."but baby......its black history month"
7. "I won't write a review of our time, that way your white clients who prefer seeing only providers with NBA policies won't stop seeing you. Originally Posted by gimme_that
I've never said ANY of the above but I have heard #7, from a few providersIn complete agreement with everything, never had to use any of 'em...in fact also heard #7 from an nba provider fairly recently...lol.
"Please don't write a review of our time, that way my white clients who prefer seeing only providers with NBA policies won't stop seeing me". Originally Posted by DickEmDown
I've always wondered about the approaches different guys take when confronted with a provider who interests him, but whose policy that excludes him, like an NBA policy.
Do you just move on without another thought?
Do you call her up and give her a piece of your mind, because she's pissed you off?
This would NOT help him at all and might even reinforce WHATEVER reason she has for not seeing black men lol.
Do you mentally thank her for being upfront and letting you avoid a lousy session?
Do you call her and try to charm your way into her good graces?
And this just looks pathetic ... don't beg or try to charm someone who doesn't want you black man.
Do you remind her that you're an Eccie moderator? (I kid, I kid).
Curious to see what the responses will be. Originally Posted by blowpop