What Makes A Hobbyist Wanna Visit A Provider Again?

I hear many Providers asking us the hobbyists what we like and how they can do better.

This is why I would like to contribute my point of view to this forum, if I may.

I would say the "level of service" a Provider gives me, to me, it determines whether I will see her or not see her again. I know a provider here on Eccie, she has given me the highest level of service I ever experienced in this hobby. Not only did we have an amazing session...but I felt completely satisfied every time I have seen her.
I have hobbied a lot and there were some times, I was left "wanting" or was "not completely satisfied" after the session.
What I find amazing about this provider is that she focuses completely on pleasing the hobbyist. She values his time and his efforts to see her. Those who have seen her, keep coming back, even I keep coming back to see her.


I will use 3 examples to present the hobbyist point of view in a metaphor. Most hobbyists will opt for Option A, in my opinion. You are welcome to agree or disagree with my post, your opinions are welcome.

3 Examples:

Option A:
Let's say that you were hungry and that you walked into a restaurant. The staff treat you very well and the service is excellent. Plus they are not clock watchers at all. The food and the wine is amazing and not only is it amazing, but you are allowed to eat as much as you'd like. Some will eat more and some will eat less, but all have the equal opportunity to eat until they are satisfied. We all go home Happy and we all come back and wanna keep coming back.

Option B:
You walk into a restaurant. The staff treat you very well, but the service is okay. The food and wine is amazing, but as soon as you request one of the delicacies, you are told there will be a $50 service upcharge. You get thirsty and ask for an extra soda refill, and they tell you it will another additional $15 per refill. One of your spoons falls to the floor and you politely ask for another one, and the waitress tells you an extra set of silverware will cost you $5. After you are done eating, you feel buyers remorse when you see the tab. The waitress come back and says "You only have 10 minutes left". Not only is your wallet a lot thinner, but you were never satisfied. Some will keep coming back, but most won't.

Option C:
You walk into a restaurant. Some of the staff greet you and others look at you with a sneer on their faces. The food and wine is average, the food here is low cost and cheap. You sit on the table waiting to order your food and you are told that the waitress NCNS this morning because her dog got eaten by a devil worshipping T-Rex. You sit on the table for 15 minutes until finally someone takes your order. Then you wait another 30 minutes for your food and then you are told there was a horrific kitchen fire of apocalyptic proportions and that your food is now ashes, and the staff asks you if you can re-schedule your visit or come back another day. You did not get a chance to eat anything besides them nacho chips and canned salsa on the table. And adding insult to injury, you are then presented with a tab of $10 for a service that you never received and told that your overstayed by 15 minutes.
Few will ever come back, but most will never return. Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

Be real, and turn into a kinky pornstar, then back to normal after you wear him out and show him an amazing time! Being kind and courteous from beginning starting with his time and till your visit is over!

What keeps me coming back? A special "connection" between my ATF and I. What does that mean.....

Having common interests, knowing how to keep things light and fun, a nice/comfortable/safe incall, and having a highly developed sense of knowing what she wants sexually and vice versa, and a willingness to explore.

When I spoke of restaurants, I was speaking in a sense metaphorically. Another example if a provider was $250 an hour and she has Bbbj in her list of activities and you ask her for a Bbbj during the session and instead she gives you a CBJ...and then you tell her you meant a Bbbj. And then she says it's $25 more. Then in a sense her level of service can be compared to Option B.
Option A would be a provider with a wide menu, everything from anal, Bbbj, cot, deep throat, face sitting, Msog, to zodomising hobbyists with her big strap on 18 foot dildo (if they request it). When provider option A says she will do "this" or "that" for you...she really means it. If she says she will do Kama sutra pages 1 to 2 and Msog too, she does it. She honors her àppointments and doesn't ncns ever, EVER!
Provider Option C is to me the provider who flakes out on the hobbyist, double books appointments, ncns frequently, pisses off other providers and hobbyists alikes, she steals money from hobbyists and scams others, and who doesn't care about honoring her appointments. Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

And what do you guys expect to pay for this Hour? I am definitely an option A provider but rarely given the chance to prove it.

Your examples are unrealistic and designed to provide you with your deserved response. Places that allow you to eat and drink as much as you want without changing more (option A) are called buffets, and they don't offer amazing food and wine. Places that offer amazing food and wine are going to charge you more if you order more amazing food and wine, unless you're a regular customer/big spender, it's a special occasion, or you're a celebrity or mobster.

A few providers do offer the option of a clock-free, all-inclusive session for $1,000+. What if all providers offered just that one option? You could come and stay as long as you wanted and sample her menu as much or as little as you wanted.

I'll tell you what would happen. Guys would saying "but, I only want to stay half an hour, why do have to pay for time I'm not going to use?" "But I don't want greek. I don't even want full service. Can't you bump the price down and just give me a 20 minute blowjob for $100?" Originally Posted by BFCjosh

Exactly, it's like we are here to give you what you want but it's not enough or you want something else.

Personally I make adjustments in services and Hourly rates but it hasn't appealed to many. I have all yes reviews and they dont even compare to all the things I am interested in and like to do bcd-but a lot of the guys go with the girls that NCNS, or provide mediocre service.

I definitely agree with BFCJosh when he says "
Places that offer amazing food and wine are going to charge you more if you order more amazing food and wine, unless you're a regular customer/big spender, it's a special occasion, or you're a celebrity or mobster."


I would think $300/Hr-90 min would be sufficient.

I have never done a lot of repeats, just because there is so much variety out there. It takes a high energy experience for me to want to repeat.

For me to repeat there has to be genuine chemistry. Good sex should be a given, if I've done my research right, and the hobbyists whose reviews I trust didn't steer me wrong.

And I understand YMMV, but to click with someone who I can have a coherent conversation with, laugh with, AND fuck the dog shit out of is what draws me back, repeatedly.

For me to repeat there has to be genuine chemistry. Good sex should be a given, if I've done my research right, and the hobbyists whose reviews I trust didn't steer me wrong.

And I understand YMMV, but to click with someone who I can have a coherent conversation with, laugh with, AND fuck the dog shit out of is what draws me back, repeatedly.

Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Lets chat! lol I love your avi

Ladies here are a few things I want to say about having a good session. No one is making you choose what type of session you offer. But here are some guidelines.

If you offer a GFE then that should include looking me in the eye, smiling, being friendly, french kissing, passion. responsiveness, and when I lick your titties and your pussy at least act like you enjoy it. You are selling a fantasy.

If you offer a PSE then that means no part of your body is off limits. it means I can drill you hard, deep throat you, and greek too. And there should be some passion involved in that too.

It is all about making us feel like a king for a short while. This is what we pay for. Thank you.

It is all about making us feel like a king for a short while. This is what we pay for. Thank you. Originally Posted by spear88

Of course you should feel like a king when your with a provider. That's my job: to PROVIDE service. I always try my best to put the best foot forward, but a gentleman should feel on top of the world when he's with her.

And if it doesn't completely work on her end, she's welcome to politely decline and recommend someone else who would be more suited.

Kisses,
VP

I have grown weary of the younger women and have been seeing more MILFs because I have more in common with them and they have more experience and seem to be more willing to please and I go back to see them more .

Ladies here are a few things I want to say about having a good session. No one is making you choose what type of session you offer. But here are some guidelines.

If you offer a GFE then that should include looking me in the eye, smiling, being friendly, french kissing, passion. responsiveness, and when I lick your titties and your pussy at least act like you enjoy it. You are selling a fantasy.

If you offer a PSE then that means no part of your body is off limits. it means I can drill you hard, deep throat you, and greek too. And there should be some passion involved in that too.

It is all about making us feel like a king for a short while. This is what we pay for. Thank you. Originally Posted by spear88

I couldn't of said it better myself hun! ^.^

I have grown weary of the younger women and have been seeing more MILFs because I have more in common with them and they have more experience and seem to be more willing to please and I go back to see them more . Originally Posted by carkido45

Every time you post, carkido45, I love you a bit more...

^^^^ ask him about YM

Blue Water!

Lets chat! lol I love your avi Originally Posted by Karrine_Kream

A big fan of Robert Nesta are you?

I have grown weary of the younger women and have been seeing more MILFs because I have more in common with them and they have more experience and seem to be more willing to please and I go back to see them more . Originally Posted by carkido45

In complete agreement sir!!!

I have grown weary of the younger women and have been seeing more MILFs because I have more in common with them and they have more experience and seem to be more willing to please and I go back to see them more . Originally Posted by carkido45

I'm definitely not a milf but, often told I have an old soul. Unlike most my age I can hold conversations over a variety of things.

I'm a guys girl-love sports, cars & the hobby. LOL