Clarity please on this

You think if she finds out that your going to Asian massage parlors that she won't figure out what's going on, or at least get really suspicious?

Thanks for all of the advice. I absolutely love my wife and adore my Grands. I am driven here because literally she will not have sex with me. We are both in our late 50's . I've tried everything with her. Roses etc. she has zero interest in sex so I found this site through a stripper at the Ritz. Originally Posted by Foxtrotdancer

Have you tried talking to her about the possibility of you having NSA encounters to fulfill your needs? If she really cares about you she may be ok with you stepping out occasionally to relieve your stress, unless she truly despises you.
Or you could try holding back on something that she enjoys, maybe stop attending her pickle ball tournaments.

Thanks for all of the advice. I absolutely love my wife and adore my Grands. I am driven here because literally she will not have sex with me. We are both in our late 50's . I've tried everything with her. Roses etc. she has zero interest in sex so I found this site through a stripper at the Ritz.

I'm a nurse practitioner by trade. If I am caught in a raid I literally will lose my license and have no way of surviving. So again thanks for all the advice. I honestly couldn't live in the hell hole of absolutely no sex. Just can't go to jail Originally Posted by Foxtrotdancer

There are probably nurses or doctors that are interested in side action. Thought about that opportunity. I do pretty well with strippers with OTC. Or just see established escorts from here or P411.

Take her to the massage place with you on a couples date.

Otherwise, Cendell has the thread winning post.

If you have to worry this much the hobby’s not for you Originally Posted by Cendell M

Thanks Cendell. You are right. I worry a lot and perhaps I shouldn't be doing this. Then I have an meet with a woman that blows my mind. I'm absolutely petrified of getting caught up in a raid by police so I ask for advice and thankful for the words of wisdom here

Before I was literally about to end my marriage. She's a great wife(no sex) successful woman . Has created a great home. Helped me raise our children to where they can now fend for themselves and we have a few Grands.

I had a date with a lady. Had a great time then honestly I came home( bought my wife flowers) and had a real conversation with my wife about why we don't have sex anymore. She agreed to go to therapy with me because there are some issues(infidelity on my part) that she hasn't recovered from.

So yes, this isn't for me, and once my wife starts making love with me I'm done. Just don't want to get arrested before I'm done