Question for the Ladies

What if a guy does do the work-out lifestyle b/c he lacks confidence to approach women? Subconsciously he feels his chances of her speaking more is if she finds his body interesting or he's not so attractive in the face so he works on the neck down really hard?

Regardless. These are psychological factors that lean less toward him being a jerk who thinks he's too good for TLC with women but instead a humble guy who appreciates rare intimate time alone with a woman reaching home base when he's more or less accustomed to only 2nd and 3rd base in the real world?

I understand that part. But what do the girls do when they check your references? Or do they just go by reviews of providers known on the exchange? If she checks up on your references by e mail or PM, I thought she would ask for a description. Ladies, is there some sort of list that describes each client? Then use that to exchange with providers asking you to vouch? Originally Posted by eccieuser9500

We usually just want to know that someone is safe. If a description is offered great, but it does not affect my decision to see anyone, unless there's an issue with hygiene or something that poses a danger. I sometimes as someone for a description just to have some idea of who to expect.


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I still to this day wonder about how, when, and if a hot provider has a lust for a really good looking guy and is attainable.

how does she approach the situation? Does she leave it alone because she gets enough sex? A lot of providers I see claim that they've been on a "real dicking/sex" drought or go through stretches.

A provider once told me that she felt subconscious about herself when making love to her SO (who doesn't know she hobbies ~ lol @ the regular dudes who are in the dark about this world). She sometimes wonder if she's being freaky enough to please and keep him.

She had no problems being the sexual goddess when her and I hooked up after the money was on the counter.

Jeezuz,

Ben Franklin is always hygienic, polite, young, hot and ripped.

End of story.

......Ben Franklin is always hygienic......
End of story. Originally Posted by Slitlikr

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seems a whole lot of sources say otherwise

I guess I should put on weight.

For me the answer to ur question OP is yes.

Gotta agree with u 100% WS. I get some guys, that honestly make me think" wow! U are going to pay me! U are super hott& gorgeous!" Then they turn out to b really smart and kind also. Sometimes I wonder if they would give me the time of day in the RW.

You don't have to be hot or young for me to make eye contact during sex, and give you that "omg why are you fucking me so good" facial expression. Young and/or sexy is always nice, it's a "pussy tingles at first sight" kind of thing lol, not denying that. But turns out the older guys know how to please a woman's body, ooh yeah!! It's like they studied ways to make women have orgasms religiously like the bible. It's a "I am definitely going to orgasm" at first sight kind of thing. Flashbacks have me getting caught in public places, with my hand down my skirt, and I'm not even sorry.

Anita you're very comfortable with who you are sexually. Sexual confidence. Very much a plus.

Anita you're very comfortable with who you are sexually. Sexual confidence. Very much a plus. Originally Posted by wreckshop

Aww thank you

I have to admit that before my entry into the hobby a man's physical appearance played a very important roll in who I dated. I'm happy to say that in my time as Macy I've learned to appreciate a sharp mind, witty sense of humor and a dorky shy smile. I now adore men that I would have never looked at twice before because they're smart, kind, and driven. So no, looks are not important.

I have to admit that before my entry into the hobby a man's physical appearance played a very important roll in who I dated. I'm happy to say that in my time as Macy I've learned to appreciate a sharp mind, witty sense of humor and a dorky shy smile. I now adore men that I would have never looked at twice before because they're smart, kind, and driven. So no, looks are not important. Originally Posted by Macy Manning

I can say the same for women.

Before the hobby world I used to judge any woman I know who's slept with more than two guys. I'd feel as if we'd never belong at the same dinner date table unless I'm plotting to get the panties.

These days, I hold a sense of appreciation toward a woman in the hobby who fully understands my sexual desires. I can actually see myself walking in public with one and enjoying a dinner date together.

That's until I'm snapped back into the real world and am presented with an opportunity to date a woman to which I know doesn't' have the magic ability to sex, seduce, and romance nearly every type of man whether small, large, hairy, old, big, bald, Pakistanian, fat, crooked teeth, disabled, etc...

Like shit! Real world broads may still hold that whole "unknown" factor as far as guys she's slept with but at least their rap sheet is consistent with certain type of (attractive) guys. It's disturbing enough to wonder if that attractive male she greeted while we hung out had his time in the sack with her and it's another to wonder if Phillip the fat pale techy two seats over at the bar one day scooped up enough coin to have my soon-to-be-beloved gargle down some of his jizz.

....... to wonder if Phillip the fat pale techy two seats over at the bar one day scooped up enough coin to have my soon-to-be-beloved gargle down some of his jizz. Originally Posted by wreckshop

classic

Ladies (and please forgive me if this is an old topic), how important is a client's physical appearance in your book? I know that money trumps all else, but do looks matter as far as guys are concerned?
Would you see a good looking guy for 250 vs. an old fattie for 300, or is this a stupid question?

Just curious. Originally Posted by Moto

It's a stupid question. Pay the $300 if you think it will make the provider like you more but really does it ever matter in the end with hired help?