Rant About Provider/Providers

He did (write a review)... Click Here Originally Posted by Shea Veile

I added the (write a review) because it's implied...the English language allows one to do so...

Poo slinging? At you? OMG...any negativity was directed at the OP/reviewer, not you...

I am really chapped by the behavior of some providers, one in particular that gave me a NC/NS and just has a mean streak a foot wide. She advertises her "toys4boys" and is just not real. I am sure ymmv, but I have not had good luck with her. I have seen many others, and never encountered such a [no need for name calling, even if you leave out one letter in it - bushaholic]

Just my RANT Originally Posted by dallasdan523

How long have you had premium access? Oh wow, you don't have it. My bad. You have been registered on this site for what? One month at the time. You chose to do an overighter or a multiple hour with a lady you had never been BCD with before?
Is this supposed to be a recipe of what not to do in the hobby.
And then you come on her and flame said lady without a proper review to say the least. I not only don't know the lady BUTT, don't care about such an insane rant and neither does anyone else.
Buy the access, do the research, don't insult the ladies (BTW do you name call your mechanic, hairdresser or dentist? I doubt it) and hope for the best.

You know, the most valuable thing about this board, IMHO, is that, not only do I find diamonds by reading this board, I also cross ladies off of my "Ladies I'd Like to Fuck Someday" list based on what I read. With the talent available in the DFW area, there is simply no reason to see a provider that doesn't have excellent reviews by qualified reviewers. Now, I'm like anybody else ... I like to go off of the boards occasionally, and sometimes pay the price because of it. But that's my choice.

Seeing a provider who has inconsistent reviews and pictures of a less-than-stellar body ... and then complaining about it? Doesn't even make sense.

Or seeing a provider who gives you an insight into the trouble she will be like in person by the way she posts on the board? That ain't happenin' either.

Just saying ... there are waaay too many gorgeous well-known ladies around here to see anyone I don't know anything about.

About the only real unknown is the YMMV factor ... what do you think, guys?

He did ... Click Here Originally Posted by Shea Veile

That is NOT a REVIEW!!!!

Now I understand--either this guy plain doesn't get how this board works, or he does, but refuses to follow protocols as he stirs shit up.

That is NOT a REVIEW!!!! Originally Posted by ANONONE

I simply quoted him and provided the requested post/link. Originally Posted by Shea Veile

If you're going to address what I said, then at least include the rest of the pertaining statement(s). You may want to pay attention to the bold highlighted words of my self-quote.

Now I understand--either this guy plain doesn't get how this board works, or he does, but refuses to follow protocols as he stirs shit up. Originally Posted by ANONONE

I absolutely agree about the OP and lack of research concerning his interests.


I can't believe I reneged on my previous reply in response to this thread.


Seriously, I'm offline to clean my car. A friend gifted me with a bottle of body wash last summer that was forgotten about until it leaked in the rear floorboard & under the driver's seat. Now it's left a goopy mess and smells like blueberries. *Ugh!*

It still isn't a review. Just a duplicate of the same rant he has posted a number of times in the wrong format and in the wrong category.

It still isn't a review. Just a duplicate of the same rant he has posted a number of times in the wrong format and in the wrong category. Originally Posted by ANONONE

I would have to agree!

My note was not intended to be a review. I am actually disappointed that I angered so many with my venting of frustration. I am not a provider nor a regular on these boards. I had a disappointing experience with a single provider after having may positive ones. My apologies for anyone I offended, but for me it was just not a good experience. Then to find personal information posted, without relevance is just disgusting. This is exactly why I am so caution. In the future I only call, as e-mail is evidence that can be twisted and something with which I can be harmed.

Again, my apologies. I am not a nut case, I have a good history with many providers, this one just did not work for me. It just must have been a bad day.

Later Days

I think Tony Patella hit the nail on the head. Here, the guy says the provider NC/NS-ed him. But in the indie review forum, he writes a review about her showing up and disappointing him. Conclusion: The man has no credibility 'round here. Hit the road.

If you write a fake review on a provider you have no creditability on this board.

I really don't like threads like this because they stir up divisiveness and animosity between hobbyists and providers, encouraging an "us v. them" mentality. How is that helpful, productive or fun? IMHO, if anyone is tired of the "BS" or genuinely feels they are being taken advantage of in the hobby, they should simply stop rather then trying to organize a head-hunt.

If you have a legitimate beef, post an alert. IMO NC/NS don't warrant this kind of reaction, because shit happens. I have had to cancel appointments at the last minute for a variety of reasons. I have had to cancel business meetings at the last minute too, and miss out on important family events because of situations that were out of my control. That's life. I've also been cancelled on at the last minute or gotten a "dead phone" when I make the second call. What can you do about that? Nothing, except research better next time and have a back-up plan. You've still got your money in your pocket, and acting like an adult can have positive returns. For example, I was "dead-phoned" earlier this week, went to my plan B and afterwards got a call from the provider I originally scheduled with. She was apologetic and I told her not to worry about it; we ended up laughing about the situation because she'd fallen asleep... As a result, she made it up to me the next day with a discount and we both (I hope) had a great time. I'm not suggesting that this is always the case, but a positive attitude can have a powerful effect.

My suggestion to the OP: Stop feeling like you are entitled to something just because its P4P. Rather than demand a provider muscle through a session with you when she's having a bad day, reschedule and go rub one out. Personally, I'd rather a provider want to see me and be in a good mood, than fake it and tolerate my presence for the sake of a donation. There's my nickel's worth, take it or leave it.

That nickel was made of gold, Ender. Excellent post!

I really don't like threads like this because they stir up divisiveness and animosity between hobbyists and providers, encouraging an "us v. them" mentality. How is that helpful, productive or fun? IMHO, if anyone is tired of the "BS" or genuinely feels they are being taken advantage of in the hobby, they should simply stop rather then trying to organize a head-hunt.

If you have a legitimate beef, post an alert. IMO NC/NS don't warrant this kind of reaction, because shit happens. I have had to cancel appointments at the last minute for a variety of reasons. I have had to cancel business meetings at the last minute too, and miss out on important family events because of situations that were out of my control. That's life. I've also been cancelled on at the last minute or gotten a "dead phone" when I make the second call. What can you do about that? Nothing, except research better next time and have a back-up plan. You've still got your money in your pocket, and acting like an adult can have positive returns. For example, I was "dead-phoned" earlier this week, went to my plan B and afterwards got a call from the provider I originally scheduled with. She was apologetic and I told her not to worry about it; we ended up laughing about the situation because she'd fallen asleep... As a result, she made it up to me the next day with a discount and we both (I hope) had a great time. I'm not suggesting that this is always the case, but a positive attitude can have a powerful effect.

My suggestion to the OP: Stop feeling like you are entitled to something just because its P4P. Rather than demand a provider muscle through a session with you when she's having a bad day, reschedule and go rub one out. Personally, I'd rather a provider want to see me and be in a good mood, than fake it and tolerate my presence for the sake of a donation. There's my nickel's worth, take it or leave it. Originally Posted by enderwiggin

Very well said. I have the proof of the actual mails sent. I can prove that she distorted the mails that I sent. I was pissed because after I left she said I would never see anyone in the metroplex again as she was placing me on the NC/MS and danger list. I paid, I did not ask for my cash back and I left. It is that simple. I can post all the threatening e-mails and text sent since, but it is not worth my time and energy. I am glad that some have had great time.

A couple of suggestions:

Look on p-411 and follow the link, not her on TER.

She worked as Cherry Lynn and Austin Amy for a while for PC, read her reviews from them on TER. I believe that Gina had to let her go for an undisclosed reason, but I have seen her give girls many chances. I have actually have had the pleasure of talking to GinaXXX and have had great luck with PC. Lil Miss Melissa has been great amnd id my favorite indi. I went indie again, but back to PC. That is just my personal bias. As always, YMMV.

it has run it's course!!!!!!!!!