Ramblings of an idiot

well said L.A.
you have said what i am sure a lot of guys on here think as they make an appointment with a lovely lady. Drama and disappointment is the last thing we want.
As i am sure is the case for the ladies too. Not all of us can afford to spend money on a "bad day".

If I were him, I would post a link to this post in my emails.

The girl's bad day, can also ruin my day.
Guys should be more upfront in reviews, not just writing the activity but if the girl's YMMV. I hate it when i show up to a session and "the visitor's there".

I have already said it was a great post..........and after reading it, it does beg the questions, "why do we have YMMV providers?".... "Why do we have providers that, for one reason or another, do not 'get into the session' or go by a script and it shows?" ....

Surely there are other questions to be answered as well or, at least, make you think. Originally Posted by bigdog0311

Because of guys like this one:

Good lord, you go through all of that? I just scan bacpage, 90% of the fun is in the hunt and sometimes you get a deer and sometimes you get a buzzard. Originally Posted by StJames

I'm rephrasing what I already tried to re-write....to say....

Even though StJames is the BP type to look at it "deer and buzzard" style....he's not a total waste, as at least he provides some reviews. Even if we don't know the amount of bp sessions he has compared to bp sessions he reviews. THIS IS NOT A STATEMENT OF CONFRONTING OR COMPLAINING OR BITCHING OR MOANING ABOUT WHAT ANYONE ELSE HAS WRITTEN OR NOT WRITTEN.
This is me saying - "Guys, I hear you when you post about 'how has this girl been around this long, and sucked so bad....so on and so forth'....and that we ALL KNOW that these YMMV types and worse are still around because THEY DON'T GET REVIEWED. So many guys would rather just not see her again, than to speak up about a bad time. It's unfortunate...but it happens."

StJames - did you miss the part about how frequently he gets to hobby?
Money may not be as tight for you...or maybe you are the 30 min for $50 full service type . (NEVER IN MY LIFE WILL I DO THAT SHIT. Not knocking those that do - but no fucking way) I'd guess 9 times out of 10 - you get what you pay for. Might as well go pick up a street walker - or hit the VIP at your local strip club.

Guys appreciate good, honest reviews.
Believe me - I KNOW because of the response I get just from one simple review - or especially one detailed, spot on review. (thank you men for keeping me in business. A review to me is worth a hundred weeks of ads...which btw - I despise posting. I'd much rather have someone speak up honestly about a session - even if it didn't "click" or things went differently than expected - because I know how I treat people I'm with - even if I'm so nervous I talk talk talk....wink...or if we have to end early, I have even been known to return some $, as I don't feel it's justified or fair...or I've offered lower rate, longer time repeat visits.)

The girl's bad day, can also ruin my day.
Guys should be more upfront in reviews, not just writing the activity but if the girl's YMMV. I hate it when i show up to a session and "the visitor's there". Originally Posted by spaceneedle

Oh, and ladies - seriously...if you are surprised by mother nature (as I was about a week ago - it showed up two weeks early!!!! Thanks Seasonelle!) LET THEM KNOW in as much advance notice as possible - and if you possibly can, contact a few of your girlfriends to see who else might be able to take the appointment for you.

This happened to me - and I was able to call her last minute with a back up plan (yes, a SHE client) and she still wanted to see ME. I felt VERY special, that even with my "situation" - she was that interested in meeting me. (my tongue and jaw the next day was very sore - guys, how do you do DATY for really long periods of time?!? I mean - I've done it...but maybe I'm just out of practice. I plan on fixing this! It was SOOO WORTH IT. But back to topic.)

And don't bother telling me about the cups and sponge and all that stuff.

I know I CAN feel it/ tell it's there.
I'm not gonna make some guy think he's imagining things.

Plus - they don't make the cups the right size to be effective for me.
So fuck it.
Mother nature week - I'm not working. (eventaully it will be long enough I can get waxed!)
Mother nature surprise...well, I'll let you know. Then we can go from there.

tnt angie, great thoughts.

and i know you know .... there are lots of sexual activities that two or more people can do when one of the women is having her cycle. LOTS!!!

but better to know of the limitations before hand than once i've arrived for the consultation.

StJames - did you miss the part about how frequently he gets to hobby?
Money may not be as tight for you...or maybe you are the 30 min for $50 full service type . (NEVER IN MY LIFE WILL I DO THAT SHIT. Not knocking those that do - but no fucking way) I'd guess 9 times out of 10 - you get what you pay for. Might as well go pick up a street walker - or hit the VIP at your local strip club.

I started hobbying back when Jimmy Carter surrendered to the Iranians, that was way befor Gore invented the Internet and global warming, so I had to do my hunting in the printed ads found in the pervert papers sold in porn shops or look on the streets, you learn what to look out for from doing. I made more money them I will ever be able to spend in the '80's and '90's so I can take the few buzzards but without the buzzards it the hunt wouldn't be any fun.

I read the title and thought, " OH crap they've hacked my diary again."



LA I've seen you and you are awesome. Consider this an open reference for L.A.

Many providers are YMMV to the extreme. If I am lucky to be there with them then they should pay me, if they do not like providing, they should do something else if it is that bad, and if it is a bad day or they are in a bad mood and cannot "change" the attitude for a whole hour before they go back to being miserable, they need to cancel the appt. before they go laughing their way to the bank, I personally cannot afford nor do I appreciate a lady that I am donating MY money to a "bad day". I am really tired of being just a wallet! Originally Posted by bigdog0311

I hate lousy sessions too, but if you're tired of being just a wallet then you need a girlfriend, not an escort.

I hate lousy sessions too, but if you're tired of being just a wallet then you need a girlfriend, not an escort. Originally Posted by Fort Worth Punk

No, I need an ATF GFE without the drama and uncertainty that comes with the mood swing of a GF, ( in other words, YMMV, and for the same donation as the great service I read about in a few reviews I saw when I did my research on her, which is why I scheduled with her to begin with!). BTW, we hobbyists are all wallets to providers and that is fine, but the trick of being a great to ATF provider is the fact that you do not make the hobbyist feel that he is nothing but a wallet, sorry, I should have made that a little clearer. Read post #1 of this thread.


Any suggestions?

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No, I need an ATF GFE without the drama and uncertainty that comes with the mood swing of a GF, ( in other words, YMMV, and for the same donation as the great service I read about in a few reviews I saw when I did my research on her, which is why I scheduled with her to begin with!). BTW, we hobbyists are all wallets to providers and that is fine, but the trick of being a great to ATF provider is the fact that you do not make the hobbyist feel that he is nothing but a wallet, sorry, I should have made that a little clearer. Read post #1 of this thread.


Any suggestions? Originally Posted by bigdog0311

I am surprised, (well not really), that not even 1 provider has commented/suggested themselves or someone else. I know a hobbyist who does have it "really good" with a provider is not going to reveal that kind of info, keeping it to himself.

To me, it speaks volumes about ALOT of the providers!

I am surprised, (well not really), that not even 1 provider has commented/suggested themselves or someone else. I know a hobbyist who does have it "really good" with a provider is not going to reveal that kind of info, keeping it to himself.

To me, it speaks volumes about ALOT of the providers! Originally Posted by bigdog0311

Well, I can say Autumn Spring for certain.

I've never met a more genuine person in the hobby in my life. There's a reason we are close real life friends as well.

Then there's Cathy...(UTR)...but she picks you - not the other way around. She is an experience in and of itself. Look up the phrase "knocks your socks off" and she's mentioned right before!

I have been trying not to be on the boards as much as I would have been before I left the hobby....or I would have replied sooner. (on top of having real life distractions from hobby life.)

It's helping me not to be such a post whore as I typically would be, as well as keeping me out of trouble. (mostly)

There's not a huge filter between my brain, mouth and fingers. Ha ha.

Good Lord I hope this is not me he is referring to

Things Happen.





I cancelled 3 appointments this week due to a Groin Injury.

I thought I pulled a muscle but tore one in my groin area over last weekend.

I was in bed from Sunday until yesterday.

I had a guy really upset Sunday evening but I honestly could not move.
I sincerely apologized to those I had to cancel with but could not perform at all.





Futhermore, am sorry this happened to you and hope it wasnt me as Ive offered discounted rates for my cancellations due to my injury.

I did not want to post here as I figured it was a slight strain/muscle pull and would heal quickly and not all my damn business needs to be on the boards.

Not the case. I am just now walking today. Was in serious pain. But My fault for acting silly when I was injured. (long story)