You providers should be damn glad that customers are calling. That means they found you interesting and are thinking of spending their hard earned money on you. Some may be window shopping today but tomorrow just may be the day they decide to take the plunge and your attitude on the original call may be what pushes them to see you.
Originally Posted by Budman
So that means asking you to put a little thought into contacting a lady is asking too much?
You should always expect out of a situation what you put into it. Darling Budman, sometimes a compromise has to be met. Neither the lady or the gent is solely the problem, but if communicating one way doesn't work, you should probably try another.
POINT BLANK. When contacting a lady, tell HER when you want an appointment, and either she can accommodate you or she can't. For the most part, her availability is none of your business until you make your intentions known. I know the caveat in that is screening for a girl that's potentially not available when you want her to be, but it doesn't hurt to get that process out of the way for the next time. That's worked well for me with gents who like short notice appointments.