I had a fb in college who was very into this and was the only partner I've had that was. It started with hard ass slapping, then hair pulling/yanking, slapping her while she gave a bbbj and then came the choking. She wanted to be man handled and was into very rough sex. It was a blast and great sex but I always questioned myself afterwards. Little too much for me but it was fun to experience.
Needless to say that when I think of slapping and choking, a quiet and polite country girl from Ada, Oklahoma comes to mind.