Alert threat from Yummy Marie and confusion

kenmaster, you seem to have no support. No one has come to your side. And, you've been reported in an fem-only section. That sucks dude. And, all over $50 bones. It seems life has dealt you a turd in your efforts. That sucks dude. Oh well, dust yourself off and get back in the saddle...luck!

WGAF

I hate to do it Ken, never met Yummi, never will. Not my cup of tea but you are wrong on this one amigo.

So you started at two hours, then changed to one hour. Got to the appointment and went over 30min. I don't know any of you and I don't know anything but it just seems like you wanted more than an hour but didn't want to pay the rate. Maybe maybe not, just what it seems like.

The glass is either Half empty , or half full. I have decided on half full in favor of Yummy Marie. Why? Cos i stand a better chance of benefiting from siding with The Provider . lol. I am not Pissing off my potential ATF.. Ironically I just did a review on Yummy M. Pending Approval. And to be Honest, and putting all jokes aside. This is just a simple misunderstanding between 2 sincere, well meaning Hobbyists. No one meant to hurt or upset the other . Simple mis understanding, and thats my true heartfelt Opinion. Guys lets just kiss and make up. ... A 8 yr Hobbyist, and a provider with a spotless record, Somethink simply went Awry.. Lets Hobby Along. There are real creeps out there. Not U 2. Pros. My Humble Opinion. Yummy ...btw THX ... see reviw when/pproved.

To guard privacy, the alert was posted in a ladies only forum. I do not wish to discuss this further in open forums. Thank you and good day. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Not very private seeing how you just disclosed what discussion was taking place....I'll be contacting you soon.

This sounds like he said she said which is why its moved...


Personally Ken I'd pay the extra 50 and be done with this shit, however the provider should have also watched the time or at least made mention of the overage rather than just assuming.....especially if you two agreed on 1hr up front. Just my view of course.

....This is just a simple misunderstanding between 2 sincere, well meaning Hobbyists. No one meant to hurt or upset the other . Simple mis understanding, and thats my true heartfelt Opinion. Guys lets just kiss and make up. ... A 8 yr Hobbyist, and a provider with a spotless record, Somethink simply went Awry...... Originally Posted by redalloy62

Probably very true.

And, instead of trying to put out alerts on each other, it would have served them a lot better if they had resolved this between the two of them.

Heh

Well friends I see y'all bashing me upside down but there were no ill intentions to take advantage of her. And I personally have never been in this situation with another provider. Yes I agree I should have kept an eye on time but it's highly common that we go over the allotted time because of having a good comapny, drinking (she brought ciroc) or good fucking. So I am just taking her example and I am putting 3 reviews from her recent reviews (just the first page, there are several) where folks went over time (20 mins to several hours) and still paid her what they had scheduled for.. why not go bash all of them as well.. see the links

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=624560

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=629370

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=635946

I just wanted to register my disappointment and anger. I have been in the hobby for a while since jordan23 days and he was one of my best buddies (miss him). Peace y'all!

Well friends I see y'all bashing me upside down but there were no ill intentions to take advantage of her. And I personally have never been in this situation with another provider. Yes I agree I should have kept an eye on time but it's highly common that we go over the allotted time because of having a good comapny, drinking (she brought ciroc) or good fucking. Originally Posted by kenmaster

So now she replies that people have taken advantage of her and she is starting to take a hard line so it won't happen again.

Actually I blame her, not you. It's her business and how she runs it is her option. She has to be the smart one, while guys have just dumped a load of cum and are in their own little world.

So now, she turns into a clock watcher trying to protect her business. I don't blame her for that because guys have taken advantage of the time that was paid for. She want's me to get the hell out of dodge while I'm in a mellow and happy mode. Of course if I stay there 15 minutes past agreed on time, it's because she want's to be with me..........NOT

So now she gets the rep. of being a clock watcher, however somebody has to watch the clock and most times the guys don't give a shit and want every second they can spend with the lady. Human nature.

No lady want's to be a clock watcher, but if she has great reviews, it won't hurt her.
No guy want's to be on any ladies shit list, but if he's known as a stand up guy and the rent's due, it won't hurt him.
Shit happens.

It's never ending, the stuff goes on and on.

At the end of the day I agree with mojojo, just pay the 50 bucks and be done with it.

Looks like some folks could use an egg timer around here!

Heh Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Hallelujah!

Well friends I see y'all bashing me upside down but there were no ill intentions to take advantage of her. And I personally have never been in this situation with another provider. Yes I agree I should have kept an eye on time but it's highly common that we go over the allotted time because of having a good comapny, drinking (she brought ciroc) or good fucking. So I am just taking her example and I am putting 3 reviews from her recent reviews (just the first page, there are several) where folks went over time (20 mins to several hours) and still paid her what they had scheduled for.. why not go bash all of them as well.. see the links

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=624560

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=629370

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=635946

I just wanted to register my disappointment and anger. I have been in the hobby for a while since jordan23 days and he was one of my best buddies (miss him). Peace y'all! Originally Posted by kenmaster

You just proved everyone's point. You would have been better off not posting

You just proved everyone's point. You would have been better off not posting Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Actually, I'm glad he did. His posting revealed that she reports "stuff" to unavailable resources about guys without letting them know she will or has done so. Where I'm from that is valuable information, regardless of how much I might want to see her. Sounds to me like she didn't keep it to herself ... if she posted elsewhere ... he just put it out front.

Didn't he say that she let him know and by her posting in this very thread did she not let everyone know she was going to report it?

Also my post was about his last post not the original one