PSD.... & ....DFK
I see your point. Beleive me I do.
BUT...some important questions.....- *aren't you attracted to very sexually minded women?
- *would you feel that a monogamous relationship would really work with them?
- *if they wanted to - "have variety" - would you agree just to make them happy?
*OR...is it that....you BOTH would FALL SOOO in love with each other....that the desire to continue to discover other "sexual encounters" would be dissovled? Is it so? CAN THIS HAPPEN? TRULY?
In all the relationships I've seen in my life.....I will have to say...that maybe.....0001%....is actually satisfied with their mate...for life.
I really am not bashing the dedicated monogamous partnerships....but I know they are very far and few between.
Me? I want a MATE....but also....a friend....and someone I can feel comfortable to admit that I want sex outside the marriage....and we can agree on it....still love each other....and ride the waves.
GB
Originally Posted by GingerB
If I may clarify, Ginger...
DFK used this phrase: "...one big way that love will manifest itself is in an exclusive sexual appetite for her."
...which perhaps I misinterpreted as those firey beginnings of a romantic relationship. That initial spark of intense love has always played itself out in my life along with an intense desire to be monogamous and to put all my efforts into a single woman.
However, just as you pointed out, eventually, the flame turns to ember and the monotony of marriage sets in and the eye wanders.
In the end, 2 well-matched people can work through whatever issues arise. And if I may quote myself...
"I've tried vanilla relationships. They don't work for me. I need a woman that can deliver ALL 31 flavors."
For the right woman, monogamy is not a necessity; only honesty and loyalty...
Sorry if I confused things here, Ginger...
PSD