Preferences When it Cums to Sucking Cock...GOOD

Had a BBBJCIM recently where, when I started to cum in her mouth, she got very still; she let me do all the moving, thrusting, etc. she let me take her head in my hands and pump away. It was different and very hot and satisfying. And she was vocal, moaning while I was cumming. Vocals are ACCEPTED while we're exploding...

For you ladies that don't CIM, when I start to cum don't take your hands and rub across the most sensitive area, the head. Grab my penis at the base and squeeze lightly, moving up and down the shaft and STOPPING a little above the base of the head. When this is done right I can explode for 15-20 seconds.

I agree with the others that said to do variety early in the BBBJ but consistency near the end. Seeing variety is sexy as hell, but to get to the finish line consistency gets the job done. If you want to edge then changing up the tempo or technique will certainly do that, but if you're trying to wrap things up then go with a steady rhythm and keep the technique consistent.

One more suggestion, use those hands! I love it when a woman pulls my ass in during a BBBJ, and tickles my balls, and runs her fingertips up and down my legs, back, chest and ass. It definitely enhances the experience.

when I start to cum don't take your hands and rub across the most sensitive area, the head. Originally Posted by Prolongus

Totally ruins the finish. For some reason some women want to go to town giving the head a major rubdown at the finish and holy shit, I get so sensitive that it can actually make me jerk away from them. A perfect finish to a great BBBJ is when they take it in a little deeper and just have their lips wrapped around the shaft and gently milk it without head contact. And ladies, don't stop until well after the pulsing stops

Good suction and a steady pace with lots of tongue massage on the shaft and head, especially the bottom side. Nothing quite like the feeling of a full engulf with the entire tongue on it from bottom to top with a full swirl on the tip then back down again. Do that with a PM and tonguing of the sack and I'd be in heaven. Originally Posted by TexasDave555

Most women don't know that the frenulum ( or don't know what that is) needs attention and drives a man wild with tongue caresses.

Had a BBBJCIM recently where, when I started to cum in her mouth, she got very still; she let me do all the moving, thrusting, etc. she let me take her head in my hands and pump away. It was different and very hot and satisfying. And she was vocal, moaning while I was cumming. Vocals are ACCEPTED while we're exploding...

I just came .

For you ladies that don't CIM, when I start to cum don't take your hands and rub across the most sensitive area, the head. Grab my penis at the base and squeeze lightly, moving up and down the shaft and STOPPING a little above the base of the head. When this is done right I can explode for 15-20 seconds. Originally Posted by Prolongus

Someone rubbed your head with their hands when you started to cum? Ok, sorry about that experience! Not everyone CIM's but this is when creativity can play a part...

I agree with the others that said to do variety early in the BBBJ but consistency near the end. Seeing variety is sexy as hell, but to get to the finish line consistency gets the job done. If you want to edge then changing up the tempo or technique will certainly do that, but if you're trying to wrap things up then go with a steady rhythm and keep the technique consistent.

One more suggestion, use those hands! I love it when a woman pulls my ass in during a BBBJ, and tickles my balls, and runs her fingertips up and down my legs, back, chest and ass. It definitely enhances the experience.

Totally ruins the finish. For some reason some women want to go to town giving the head a major rubdown at the finish and holy shit, I get so sensitive that it can actually make me jerk away from them. A perfect finish to a great BBBJ is when they take it in a little deeper and just have their lips wrapped around the shaft and gently milk it without head contact. And ladies, don't stop until well after the pulsing stops Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas

So far I've only had one gent request me to continue going with focused attention on his head, which was the first time - so generally speaking, it's best to relax on the head, and let the gent do the rest inside the mouth

There ARE such things as a bad blow job. Some women don't get it at all: They figure a little tongue flicking on the head, while limply holding it, will do.

NUH UH !

For me, an excellent BBBJ goes sumptin like this:

Nice Licks from balls to head, then back again, getting everything wet.
Firm suction on head and tongue swirling too, while head is in mouth.
Good hand movement up and down shaft while'st sucking.
Eye contact and mumbling with mouth full.
Sac contact and manipulations. I prefer balls to be surrounded by looped forefinger and thumb, with gentle pulling.
Strong sucking, sloppy sucking, energetic sucking. Getting a man off with a BBBJ must be a contact sport. Get after it. Use it and do it right. Suck his cock and make him remember it.
Edge play is nice ( up to but not cumming, controlling his cum ), if done expertly.

This soft and sensual style is not for me. It is cock sucking, not share time. Suck this cock and do it right.

FUMA / TUMA at appropriate times intensifies the O. Do it.

DO NOT QUITE WHEN HE IS CUMMING. EVER. Continue until HE pulls away. Its his cock and you are there to pleasure it. If you freaking quite before HE is ready to stop, you have done a great disservice. Just because he has stopped squirting doesnt mean it is time for you to stop.

There... Any questions ?

Think we have this in a nutshell...the way I like it anyway:

1. Don't rub, squeeze or massage the head whilst we cum...beforehand is good.

2. Please continue whilst we're cumming...and the way you do it separates the pros from the amateurs.

3. WALDT...and I think Eva gets it!

Most my sessions are bbbj only, so I NEED and DESIRE a provider that can really get into a slow extended bbbj. I tend to like the bj to start very slowly, lazily, no hands, like we are in no rush. That kind of start keep my cock very sensitive. The wetter the better, and the deeper the better. I like for the lady to find her sweet spot on the depth, as I want her to be comfortable, and able to maintain. Eye contact is GREAT. Nothing is hotter than seeing a lustful stare POV looking Me right in the eye. Sometimes when I am lucky enough to find that perfect lil cocksucker, that gets into it, MSOG can be had easily, and that is pure heaven. I was lucky enough to experience the OP EVA. MAJOR TALENT.

We all know it's rare to find that provider that REALLY, REALLY knows how to suck a cock - I'm talking having everything such as charisma, creativity, endurance, breathing, suction, saliva, pace, etc. all rolled up in ONE. I'm talking even knowing the structure of a penis to execute an excellent BJ. I'm talking experience with "training" endurance sessions ( shoutout to Rhino) at hours at a time.

We also know that a lot of providers focus on just Deep Throating, a great ability within itself, while others focus on Technique ( which includes all the italicized) ...some do both (ahem)...

Which one is most important to you and makes or breaks a session if you had to choose one over the other? Some guys get off on gagging a lady, others enjoy the thoughtfulness to sucking a cock good.

Ladies, which category do you fall in or enjoy the most ( I expect to hear a lot of "boths", but even if hearty at both, there is surely a strength at one more than the other)?

Thoughts Please ( we'll assume there is simultaneous ball play, licking and sucking)

Cockalatte...ya hear me? Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I'd love to hear from the ladies ( I love me some pinkness )

There ARE such things as a bad blow job. Some women don't get it at all: They figure a little tongue flicking on the head, while limply holding it, will do.

NUH UH !

For me, an excellent BBBJ goes sumptin like this:

Nice Licks from balls to head, then back again, getting everything wet.
Firm suction on head and tongue swirling too, while head is in mouth.
Good hand movement up and down shaft while'st sucking.
Eye contact and mumbling with mouth full.
Sac contact and manipulations. I prefer balls to be surrounded by looped forefinger and thumb, with gentle pulling.
Strong sucking, sloppy sucking, energetic sucking. Getting a man off with a BBBJ must be a contact sport. Get after it. Use it and do it right. Suck his cock and make him remember it.
Edge play is nice ( up to but not cumming, controlling his cum ), if done expertly.

This soft and sensual style is not for me. It is cock sucking, not share time. Suck this cock and do it right.

FUMA / TUMA at appropriate times intensifies the O. Do it.

DO NOT QUITE WHEN HE IS CUMMING. EVER. Continue until HE pulls away. Its his cock and you are there to pleasure it. If you freaking quite before HE is ready to stop, you have done a great disservice. Just because he has stopped squirting doesnt mean it is time for you to stop.


There... Any questions ? Originally Posted by crashkopf

Yes, Daddy!

Most my sessions are bbbj only, so I NEED and DESIRE a provider that can really get into a slow extended bbbj. I tend to like the bj to start very slowly, lazily, no hands, like we are in no rush. That kind of start keep my cock very sensitive. The wetter the better, and the deeper the better. I like for the lady to find her sweet spot on the depth, as I want her to be comfortable, and able to maintain. Eye contact is GREAT. Nothing is hotter than seeing a lustful stare POV looking Me right in the eye. Sometimes when I am lucky enough to find that perfect lil cocksucker, that gets into it, MSOG can be had easily, and that is pure heaven. I was lucky enough to experience the OP EVA. MAJOR TALENT. Originally Posted by challenger340

Thanks hun and I certainly agree - as we've all forgot to mention EYE CONTACT. Major turn on for me too, as I let my Lover know Im there with him, savoring and enjoying his cock in my mouth. Ads a porn-star flare too...

I like a chick who has confidence in, and gets off on giving BJ's. Someone who doesn't even acknowledge me and just goes to work on minime! But they have to genuinely love giving head to achieve this. So far, I haven't came from a BJ yet, but two have managed to get some precum out of DK jr.

I like a chick who has confidence in, and gets off on giving BJ's. Someone who doesn't even acknowledge me and just goes to work on minime! But they have to genuinely love giving head to achieve this. So far, I haven't came from a BJ yet, but two have managed to get some precum out of DK jr. Originally Posted by dongeykong

WTF?


Are you challenging me ?




What's pre-cum ?

I want it all...

In my opinion, a gal cant give a great bbbj unless she is a totally ravenous cocksucker who is totally addicted to sucking cock and eating cum and sees cocks as a way to get the much desired and required cum feeding. Gals who are totally addicted to swallowing cum will literally rip your pants off to get at your cock for every drop of that cum meal they crave. They usually have perfected the right technique needed to get them all the cum they can suck out. Gals who dont swallow rarely give a great BJ. Gals truly addicted to cocks and cum will blow you in the car, in restrooms, at parties etc etc and cant control their cocksucking addiction and dream of swallowing your cum asap

Just call Melannie Star!

I am making sure my eyes devour every letter typed on this thread.

The information here is gospel.

Fellas, keep it coming!

I am making sure my eyes devour every letter typed on this thread.

The information here is gospel.

Fellas, keep it cumming! Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby

Fixed that for ya...and I'm glad we have note-takers...

To each his own, but I really don't get the "eye contact" thing that so many guys feel is so desired. I usually don't even look at the provider during BBBJ. I like to just lay back with my eyes closed and fully enjoy the sensation. Maybe I'm just not a good multi-tasker!

In my opinion, a gal cant give a great bbbj unless she is a totally ravenous cocksucker who is totally addicted to sucking cock and eating cum and sees cocks as a way to get the much desired and required cum feeding. Gals who are totally addicted to swallowing cum will literally rip your pants off to get at your cock for every drop of that cum meal they crave. They usually have perfected the right technique needed to get them all the cum they can suck out. Gals who dont swallow rarely give a great BJ. Gals truly addicted to cocks and cum will blow you in the car, in restrooms, at parties etc etc and cant control their cocksucking addiction and dream of swallowing your cum asap Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I like your opinion, and ravenous cock-sucking gives me an adrenaline rush


Anyone like a switch-up, slow and sensual and then ravenous (or vice-versa) ?