I think you are missing the point. The purpose of a P411 ID is not just for perusing your 'okays' and reading your all-too-frequently uncompleted bio. The number is used to check against the gentleman's id, and he can easily cover any pertinent information with a thumb. So I guess I fail to see why some guys get their panties in a wad over the ID thing. You know that is what it's for when you sign up, so spare me.
I think it's hilarious that some guys act like we just can't wait to get our grubby little hands on your precious information....Or that we are even capable of remembering it...or that we would even want to remember it . As though...of all the guys we see, YOU are the chosen one we are plotting against, LOL!! Funny stuff. To be quite honest, we couldn't care less about the specifics of your personal info, we just want to make sure you are not going to arrest or harm us. I know, it's terribly annoying, all this 'safety' nonsense.
Originally Posted by Dannie
On occasion, I've had a lady ask me for my ID over the years and I've never had a problem showing it to her. I can't imagine how nerve-racking it must be to open the door and let in a stranger. I've never worried about a lady trying to remember my information for later use.
However, despite all the research I did on P411 before joined, I never found information saying that I had to produce an ID that contained all this information at the time of the appointment. I thought the information would be used to help P411 verify who I was. I mention this because I am sure others were not of aware of this before joining so the "you knew what it was for when you signed up" may not be true in many cases.
And, while I personally do not have an issue with showing my ID, I can understand why other guys do. You can never be too careful when the other party -- if they were so inclined -- could easily destroy your life. This doesn't happen every day, but it does happen.
The ladies should continue to request whatever level of information they need to feel comfortable. They should hold firm, but I would hold they have a little more empathy for their customers legitimate concerns. Just as I hope the gentlemen will understand the ladies concerns and quietly move on if the screening requirement are too much for them.