Define fetishes? pse?

I enjoy your fetishes Mr. Nick and you know what mine are... ��

Unfortunately Those two things are never going to be a cut and dry answer. One persons idea of vanilla is another persons wild. I've had guys tell me they are kinky and like to try new things......BCD they were so BFE it was not even funny.

In my opinion Fetish and kink are things like foot fetish, feeder-ism, role play, littles, BDSM, pegging, trannies, water sports, needle play, breath play, rope, swapping,e-stim, and soooo much more. Problem with fetish is it is such a big world it's impossible to define it with just one word. When you see fetish it's mostly someone letting you know they are open minded enough to discuss things beyond GFE and PSE. You just have to see if their idea of kink and fetish and yours mix. Also depending on what you are into please make sure the person knows what they are doing. Some things can be dangerous if not done correctly.

PSE- I think is simpler to define. Usually more raunchy and hedonist style. Dirty talk involved and rougher. When I think PSE I think of a hardcore porn vid and all that goes on.

I enjoy your fetishes Mr. Nick and you know what mine are... �� Originally Posted by RoxxxyRae

Indeed Roxxxy!! Looks like it's just you and me girl!

Unfortunately Those two things are never going to be a cut and dry answer. One persons idea of vanilla is another persons wild. I've had guys tell me they are kinky and like to try new things......BCD they were so BFE it was not even funny.

In my opinion Fetish and kink are things like foot fetish, feeder-ism, role play, littles, BDSM, pegging, trannies, water sports, needle play, breath play, rope, swapping,e-stim, and soooo much more. Problem with fetish is it is such a big world it's impossible to define it with just one word. When you see fetish it's mostly someone letting you know they are open minded enough to discuss things beyond GFE and PSE. You just have to see if their idea of kink and fetish and yours mix. Also depending on what you are into please make sure the person knows what they are doing. Some things can be dangerous if not done correctly.

PSE- I think is simpler to define. Usually more raunchy and hedonist style. Dirty talk involved and rougher. When I think PSE I think of a hardcore porn vid and all that goes on. Originally Posted by Tequila Rose

Thank you. This is what I was asking for. It's just becoming taxing to go back and forth with a provider about the list and types, but I guess you are right, there is no real way to define it. However I have come across too many providers who say they allow fetishes and have no clue what they are and when I tell them what I like they don't respond back!

If you are not shy maybe try posting an ISO. Fetlife is also a good place to find like minded people. There are a few providers on their as well.

If you are not shy maybe try posting an ISO. Fetlife is also a good place to find like minded people. There are a few providers on their as well. Originally Posted by Tequila Rose

I am not shy, this was more to just pick everyone's brain. But I am thinking of an ISO. I am already on fetlife, their search feature is terrible though.

I case you really want to deep dive this topic, there is a National Forum called Another Realm where this is discussed at length.

A good answer to the OP's question is a deep dive into this thread: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2095324

Enjoy.

I case you really want to deep dive this topic, there is a National Forum called Another Realm where this is discussed at length.

A good answer to the OP's question is a deep dive into this thread: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2095324

Enjoy. Originally Posted by BugleBoy

Thanks. Interesting thread. Sounds like there are some dominate women out there. Not my fetish. But to eachs own as they say. I'm not very good at searches here. I need to work on that and I could find more topics about this sort of thing which I hope will help me find more providers. I need a good harem so I can have choices lol

Tequila Rose, I will say that I am honored to learn a new word today. I have never heard of Hedonist until now. Thank you as you have added another term to my vocabulary.

Tequila Rose, I will say that I am honored to learn a new word today. I have never heard of Hedonist until now. Thank you as you have added another term to my vocabulary. Originally Posted by gt27

Didn't you say you have a law degree from Kansas, Missouri or somewhere up north? What kind of an education system allows a JD where the grad does not know of or the meaning of the term "Hedonist?" Especially a Legal Beagle who is one who plays in the hobby? ROTFLMAO

I had heard schools up that way were spending more time on creationism, etc. and less time on substantive topics. Oh well, we in Texas don't have that problem (sarcasm) but we are well aware of Hedonists, as we see a lot of them down here...

AH yes you do doll, time I come see you again! Still have that costume? Originally Posted by Mr Nick

As a matter of fact I do I saved it just for you

I enjoy your fetishes Mr. Nick and you know what mine are... �� Originally Posted by RoxxxyRae

After reading your last review from Mr Nick me thinks I have to get over and see you.

After reading your last review from Mr Nick me thinks I have to get over and see you. Originally Posted by RICKDOG8

I lied, don't go see her, haha I want her to myself!

As a matter of fact I do I saved it just for you Originally Posted by KendalClarkson

Let's make a date, 6 or 8 hours?

A problem you could be having is that not all companions are open to discussing activities at all... or at least not until screening is complete.

Also, it is both possible to allow some forms of fetish play while completely having no interest in others. That's why soft and hard limits exist.

...It's just becoming taxing to go back and forth with a provider about the list and types, but I guess you are right, there is no real way to define it. However I have come across too many providers who say they allow fetishes and have no clue what they are and when I tell them what I like they don't respond back! Originally Posted by Mr Nick

Solid!

If you are not shy maybe try posting an ISO. Originally Posted by Tequila Rose