Sorry, Cendell. No beef, but I started this hobby before joining eccie. But after that it was a standard to us that GFE meant kissing and bbbj , Like you would do with a GF, but even some that have real world girlfriend will still suite up with intercourse, and that to me seems to be standard. As far as PSE well it goes without saying its as far as her or his limits and preferences. So the article you refer to seems to want to change the standards?? I'm not a big kisser though if I'm attracted and arouse enough I would like that, but no way can I deal with cbj!!! I might as well lube up, or find the best cover and self satisfy. I'm not poking or picking at you or your post. But I will stand firm on what I know and like, and hopefully the guys that's been around will do the same. Donations already have inflated and now the service is going to be downgraded?? So from the past those who offer PSE ask almost double GFE, so with the article that you refer then now it 4 times? Just for kissing or bbbj? And we are to donate to a conversation then get cbj with no kissing at the average rate at 3??? Hopefully there will be more proactive comments to see where this hobby verse is going, cause if that article is correct and that becomes the norm then OF and porn and is the way to go, or might as well start dating lol. Like I said No intentions or bad with you Cendell I find your post highly intriguing and intelligent, but the article to and may I think to speak up for the majority that has been around, Its is BS. Originally Posted by dat198No I agree I also kiss and bbbj, I’m just making a point that the standard back in the day was what the article was about. I think guys have it real good theses days but still complain. I should have made that point in my post but that’s the point! Thanks for your post i appreciate it.