Donation Etiquette

I like used 20s ( easier to count ) , I'm old school envelope pain site , after meeting kiss hug

There is no universal rule and standard. Originally Posted by CG2014

This x 1000. Whatever method Ze may prefer will get me shade from a dozen other providers, so I just do it the way that has always worked for me.

When I do overnights at my outcall location it goes in an unsealed envelope in the bathroom. Otherwise I put it in an unsealed envelope on whatever counter or desk is most obvious without saying anything other than "Hello, give me a sec to go get washed up".

Know the donation.

Never talk about donation.

Leave donation on nightstand.

If you want to see a girl who doesn't post clear donations, and that makes you have to ask, see another girl.

I always pay after services are rendered, why set yourself up to get ripped off?

I understand some gentlemen rather give donation after the session, but for us ladies that have been around a while, good standing on board, we are not looking forward to ripping you off. Instead, our intentions are that we give you a great experience and you return to see us.

I provide out of my apartment and is my residence. I promise I won't run with the money because it's not right and it will be awkward to have the client stand in front of my door, waiting to get his money back. Lol

For my long time regulars, some do give me the donation afterwards. Some rather a monthly advance, but it's because trust over the years has been established.

Cash first then ass!1s 5s 10s 20s 50s or 100s it doesn't matter it will still be spent the same way lol

Hundreds are my favorite and fifties a close second.

I get a lot of twenties, I've always assumed that's the only denomination available at the ATM my friend stopped at.

I prefer no envelopes, I've seen too many alerts where the envelope was used to conceal fake funds. I get a lot of envelopes, I just open them... No use complaining!

After a brief greeting, lay donation on whatever flat surface is easily accessible and excuse yourself to the bathroom to freshen up. If you are worried about a lady cash n dashing you, step up to the next level lady. If we know the donation is correct we really are more comfortable and able to fully focus on our session vs thinking he might try to be shady at the end. Yes, we screen, well most of us. Just like providers...good hobbyist can go bad. Just get it out of the way right off the bat. It's not rocket science.

I understand some gentlemen rather give donation after the session, but for us ladies that have been around a while, good standing on board, we are not looking forward to ripping you off. Instead, our intentions are that we give you a great experience and you return to see us.

I provide out of my apartment and is my residence. I promise I won't run with the money because it's not right and it will be awkward to have the client stand in front of my door, waiting to get his money back. Lol

For my long time regulars, some do give me the donation afterwards. Some rather a monthly advance, but it's because trust over the years has been established. Originally Posted by SxySpanishMia

I can make the same post but turn the tables. Established hobbyists or first time clients that want to continue seeing you or other providers in the future have no intention of ripping you off or shorting your donation.

I prefer to pay as afterwards as I am leaving and have done that 99% of the time. The couple of times I have paid or even left the donation on the table as soon as I arrived, the provider takes/counts it in front of me and puts it away, which is not discrete at all.

But, that is just one of the risks (getting swindled) that we take in this hobby and all of us obviously want to minimize it. So there is really no set in stone for all to abide by rule stating a right or wrong way to do it and always will be a great debate.

After a brief greeting, lay donation on whatever flat surface is easily accessible and excuse yourself to the bathroom to freshen up. If you are worried about a lady cash n dashing you, step up to the next level lady. If we know the donation is correct we really are more comfortable and able to fully focus on our session vs thinking he might try to be shady at the end. Yes, we screen, well most of us. Just like providers...good hobbyist can go bad. Just get it out of the way right off the bat. It's not rocket science. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

A good provider can go bad also, we've seen it here multiple times

As long as the provider does not crack the door open and hand it to her pimp it's off to a good start we hope

Hopefully both sides have done their research and neither is willing to risk their reputation on a stupid decision. Could be argued both for and against getting it out of the way first.

*sigh*

I'm going to do what makes the provider feel more comfortable since she's the one providing the service. I say that with the caveat that I only see providers that are on here and have some reviews and posts so that I can do some level of screening myself. In 15 years I've only had one issue.
When I hobby I choose to trust the provider that I see. If she screws me over then I'll just mention her in posts like this for the next 15 years. Right Carla Sweets?

We men are here to pay to play. Put the money down in plain sight when you first walk in (not hidden in an envelope...she may not recycle:-) ugh n smh. If you are a only pay after services stud...choice more wisely. If you didn't have fun then don't go back.

I'm still pretty sure this is not rocket science lol. You book it you owe it...the money dude. Live n learn

NO envelopes please Come in give a hug kiss or handshake , put it down the $ so I can see , you go take a shower, I put it away .. then when you come out of the shower I'm naked on the bed , so I'm not running off any where
giggle ..