A bad case of the "likes"

I love the "pay in advance" that's the QUICKEST way to run off a hoogar.

I ain't lyin.

But...if you two enjoy each other then why run away? Just realize 90% of these long term ATF relationships end poorly & you'll be fine.

My advice is to enjoy it while its good...don't invest more than a session at a time financially...and be prepared to walk away when she starts taking you for granted.... ( sooner or later). Originally Posted by Toyz

Bad advice, don't listen to a word of it, Vlombardi! If you just do what I tell you, your world will be perfect! Bill pay is the answer. Trust me.... In fact, you could just bill pay directly to her accounts instead of burdening her. Skip a step and watch how much more time she'll have to be romanced by you! She'll need some new summer clothes and a new bathing suit. Perhaps you can encourage her to start making wish lists online at Victoria Secret and Macy's so you can surprise her with packages in the mail frequently! Packages=panty dropping and love making

^^^ !!!!

I love the "pay in advance" that's the QUICKEST way to run off a hoogar.

I ain't lyin.

But...if you two enjoy each other then why run away? Just realize 90% of these long term ATF relationships end poorly & you'll be fine.

My advice is to enjoy it while its good...don't invest more than a session at a time financially...and be prepared to walk away when she starts taking you for granted.... ( sooner or later). Originally Posted by Toyz

Bad advice, don't listen to a word of it, Vlombardi! If you just do what I tell you, your world will be perfect! Bill pay is the answer. Trust me.... In fact, you could just bill pay directly to her accounts instead of burdening her. Skip a step and watch how much more time she'll have to be romanced by you! Now that's funny.
She'll need some new summer clothes and a new bathing suit. Perhaps you can encourage her to start making wish lists online at Victoria Secret and Macy's so you can surprise her with packages in the mail frequently! Packages=panty dropping and love making. Packages = packages and nothing more. Originally Posted by HunterGrace

V

So there you have it. Which of these two responses sounds more like basic common sense and which sounds more like a late night infomercial for lonely mongers?

Enjoy your time with her. Having some special in your life even for a short while is better than not. Take a week off and see if she calls you. Try seeing her for just coffee or lunch non bcd time. If she says yes than you just take it slow....

What is the best remedy for a case of the "likes?" When you wake up one day and realize that you are really into your ATF a little more than you should be? Originally Posted by VLombardi

2 words: PULL OUT
OR: Marry Her
and do either one IMMEDIATELY.

Usually the first option is the better one.

Ha, was just one post away with the "Marry her". Wedding cake has something in it that takes care of that feeling.

Fun to see how you each would deal with this scenario.

Years ago, I dated a provider for over 16 months (ASPD days). It was the best and the worst thing I ever did. Got to thinking about those days when the ASPD thread popped up and wondered what you all would do if you found yourself in that situation.

Keep them coming.

V

So there you have it. Which of these two responses sounds more like basic common sense and which sounds more like a late night infomercial for lonely mongers? Originally Posted by Listener

Sounds like both were honest to me....?

Sounds like both were honest to me....? Originally Posted by Qziz

Quite possible both were but that wasn't my question.

Read her reviews to see how many other mongers have been all over her.

show up without the donation.......that should fix it

OP...
I think you should talk to her. You never know what will happen?!

I love the "pay in advance" that's the QUICKEST way to run off a hoogar.

I ain't lyin.

But...if you two enjoy each other then why run away? Just realize 90% of these long term ATF relationships end poorly & you'll be fine.

My advice is to enjoy it while its good...don't invest more than a session at a time financially...and be prepared to walk away when she starts taking you for granted.... ( sooner or later). Originally Posted by Toyz

Funny! but you may be right??

Umm...I know hunting down her RW apartment and leaving a note on her car doesn't work.

I agree with others that have said you should see someone else. Sometimes you may need to break that bond if she's the only one you've been seeing.
It may make you understand whether it is just great sex or true feelings.

If there is no SO in the picture then maybe talk with the provider and see if she wants to take the next step. See if she wants to be friends outside of hobby for starters.
But you need to accept the reality of what she does and not be jealous, if things progress.