Hank3 has it exactly right.. he, myself, Butch, and perhaps one more guy are the only AMP guys who really see Indy's regularly. we clearly see how reliable AMPs are, and for the time-constrained they are invaluable.. Indy's provide the diversification and extra fun we crave, so we put up with the crap it often takes to hook up.. the AMPs are a fixed and known price, which is reliable, but that keeps you from finding that "steal" in "the wild" that we crave to run across as well.
my suggestion would be to do as Hank stated.. have an AMP as a firm plan B, and be ready to exercise that option quickly, when you run into communication bullshit from an Indy.
For sure assuming all Indys will be like that isn't fair. We could assume all guys will be like the ones I have that won't give me verification info until they want to meet NOW and also say they are on their way and then get a call from work, a flat tire, etc etc.
trust me I've seen a lot of flakes of guys. It can go both ways
Like Jules said, get pre screened by maybe 2 or 3 even after doing some homework (much harder these days I know).
Then you can set something up fast.
For sure assuming all Indys will be like that isn't fair. We could assume all guys will be like the ones I have that won't give me verification info until they want to meet NOW and also say they are on their way and then get a call from work, a flat tire, etc etc.
trust me I've seen a lot of flakes of guys. It can go both ways
Like Jules said, get pre screened by maybe 2 or 3 even after doing some homework (much harder these days I know).
Then you can set something up fast.
Originally Posted by Joni HappyMassage
My take on this, and some may disagree or not be happy with this but .. you want to see a girl (young woman) then you need to expect girl type things to happen - ie drama, NCNS, being late, a rushed encounter, clock watching, pictures not truly representative of the actual girl, possibly pimp involvement, and definitely YMMV.
As has been suggested, and there’s a reason .. when you seek a woman (a lady) you get what you truly expect from such an amazing person. And when everything clicks, it will be repeated and repeated with her, and you will be most grateful for going in this direction for years and years to come.
In short, and I will use my Las Vegas analogy .. you either want the $1.00 Blackjack table, or you want the High Rollers Table, or somewhere between. The lower minimum hand, the more issues, drama and less satisfying the experience.