What are the Little Things You Appreciate.

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It's nice a young lady wearing something have gave her as a gift. Originally Posted by lilbear 00
Yeah, that's a good one.
To see the smile on there face when you bring flowers to them
A stroke of the face, a hug lasting longer than expected, a kind word before and after the date. Men are simple creatures. The best and most professional providers understand and embrace this truth.
A stroke of the face, a hug lasting longer than expected, a kind word before and after the date. Men are simple creatures. The best and most professional providers understand and embrace this truth. Originally Posted by outoftheblue
You hit it out of the ballpark on that one. The smallest of gestures can mean so much. If I am with a woman for 1hr+ I would hope she could bother to stroke my face or give a simple touch on the arm. Problem is few women know what little it takes to make men feel wanted. Even if it is just for an hour.
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A stroke of the face - BINGO!!! If I come in and you come up to me, kiss me tenderly while ever so gently cupping my face with your hand, I am putty! I'll go back to work and gladly put in overtime for the cash to come back to see you.

Just reading "a stroke of the face" gave me a rush . . .
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A proper introduction goes a long way with me
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Jessica and Tara...you two and I just might get along great. I'm an 'old fart' of 51
who still believes holding chairs, opening doors, saying 'yes ma'am/sir' / 'no ma'am/sir' no matter how old the person is whom I am addressing.
I know it may sound strange to some but it was just the way I was raised.
A woman/provider is always a lady first...and a source of sexual fulfillment last.
From a woman's perspective..is that type of respect really so odd these days??


I love the "manners never go out of style" comment. Manners are very very sexy to me. (Awesome thread OP) Originally Posted by Jessica Jade
Nice manners. I love it when they say yes mam and thank you. Old school I know but that's the way I was brought up. Always have nice manners. Originally Posted by Tara Evans
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Jessica and Tara...you two and I just might get along great. I'm an 'old fart' of 51
who still believes holding chairs, opening doors, saying 'yes ma'am/sir' / 'no ma'am/sir' no matter how old the person is whom I am addressing.
I know it may sound strange to some but it was just the way I was raised.
A woman/provider is always a lady first...and a source of sexual fulfillment last.
From a woman's perspective..is that type of respect really so odd these days?? Originally Posted by planojim
Now that's what I'm talking about. There's nothing sexier than a gentleman, a true gentleman.
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Thank you Jessica. It's just the way I was raised.
You know one of the things I appreciate about being with a provider really doesn't have that much to do with sex. I really appreciate the good human interaction and holding her close for a few minutes during out session. Sex is great but a little close spooning and good conversation goes a LONG way with me.

Now that's what I'm talking about. There's nothing sexier than a gentleman, a true gentleman. Originally Posted by Jessica Jade
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who still believes holding chairs, opening doors, saying 'yes ma'am/sir' / 'no ma'am/sir' no matter how old the person is whom I am addressing.
I know it may sound strange to some but it was just the way I was raised. Originally Posted by planojim
You and me both, I'm 52 and my dear grandmother hammered me on this stuff from a young age and kept at it until she molded me into the southern gent she wanted me to be. She's gone now but I am forever grateful to her for helping make me who I am
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It was my Father who hammered it into me. Picture a 320lb 6'4 ex Marine who carried 45 cal pistol for a living. When told me to say 'Yes Sir/Ma'am' or 'No Sir/Ma'am' you did it or he'd bring out the razor strap and crack it in front of me just to get my attention. He only had to hit me with it ONCE and I got the point when he brought it out and he never had to hit me with it again. If you don't know what a razor strap is then Google it.

You and me both, I'm 52 and my dear grandmother hammered me on this stuff from a young age and kept at it until she molded me into the southern gent she wanted me to be. She's gone now but I am forever grateful to her for helping make me who I am Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas
A man cut from the same cloth there pj ! I was raised same way
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Same upbringing here as well, good to know some appreciate it.
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Thank you Lilbear! From what I understood I got it a LOT easier than he got it from his Father!
PJ

A man cut from the same cloth there pj ! I was raised same way Originally Posted by lilbear 00
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ditto---a real gentleman is always welcome to my bed!!