I always wondered about this. I wonder usually how ladies with regulars and steady business usually accommodate for multihours on short notice. Or if it's just easier and more PC to lie a smidge for the greater temporary goal. I was a regular for a few ladies and always wondered how they seemed to always be available for me on short notice.
Answer this two different ways if you can. One as a regular, and the other as a new potential client.
Let's say a lady only had one booking for a day for an hour session by one client. And she was offered the chance to have an overnight or weekend for that same time slot by another client.
If you were the hour session guy, and she told you the truth respectfully that she wanted to make a better business opportunity would you be more upset she had to cancel, or would it have been easier for her to lie to you or just cancel the appointment? Would it matter if you were a newer client or a regular of hers? Both scenarios. Would you try to see her again I think is the bigger question I'm curious of.
I'd be more partial to not worrying about it if she's a regular. Cause by then I'd know she would have the confidence to know I'd be back anyways.
But if I was a new client personally......id be neutral, cause at the end of the day her decision is based on business. I appreciate integrity and tact and wouldn't let a cancelation get to me much.
Ladies is it just more PC to lie or cancel in general to spare I'll feelings and perception? Just curious.
Originally Posted by gimme_that
This business is completely based on lies. We hide behind fake names or forum handle, and money just doesn't talk, it screams. No matter what they tell you, it isn't true. Sorry, something came up, I had a family issue, whatever, it really means "someone paying me more just texted me, too bad". Lie to me, it's easier on my fragile male ego, and I know it for the lie it is, anyway. As a new client, I'd probably ask when she was next available, and if I'm a regular, I'd reasses who was at the top of my rotation for next time. Hopefully, you're dumping me for another regular. I get I'm not your #1 client, or even your top 10, but I AM a regular, too.