If I Can't Have You...I Don't Want Nobody, Baby!

If your ATF was not available, either for a day, a month, or forever, what would you do? Reluctantly find someone else? Quit? Start sampling a full buffet? Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I tend to have multiple ATFs one for each of my top sexual activity or physical attributes preferences i.e. I have a BBBJ ATF, a Greek ATF, an Asian ATF, a Latina ATF, a spinner ATF etc. Sometimes they're same girl sometimes not.

If I'm craving a specific activity or demographic and that ATF wasn't around I would see another in the same category, but the ATF would be the standard to which I'd compare the new entree

I often sample anyway just to see how others compare, after all that's how one finds ATFs in the first place!

Do you ever wonder if there is ANYTHING a woman could do to hold your interest in bed? If there is something, I suspect it might have nothing to do with what goes on in the bedroom. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Outside the hobby? A woman's mind is as or more important to me than her body. Certainly it can tip the scales one way or the other. May sound like bullshit to some but if I feel like I'm losing brain cells by talking to her I'm going to lose interest fast. I like mental gymnastics as a prelude to physical ones

Within the hobby? The entirety of the experience is of value to me from that first communication, to the IOP, the level of attentiveness and willingness to please, the warmth and tenderness, and the bedroom activities themselves. Even if the bedroom activities between providers are similar it's the other qualities that make them stand apart and often keep me returning to one over another.

That said, variety is the spice of life, and I do like to SpiceItUp

I always have one or two I play in the minor league if its time to release one from the majors. Man Whore needs to have back up.

Excellent thread LilMynx... Enjoyable read!
Many wonderful positions stated here and I will try to add to it.

Really like SpiceItUp's post feel his opinion comes the closest to mine. Yes I have my favorites but only a couple who I see regularly. Variety is definitely a part of my game and it's truly the way I'm searching for a new favorite. If variety is not allowed, I would be very sad. I can be faithful to an extent with my favorites but they all must understand my desire of variety. The mind is a horrible thing to waste. When I meet someone with the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation. It's a huge turn on for me!

Looks, performance and intelligence is my perfect package in a ATF. It happens very quickly too. It's what we like to call "clicking". If the two of you don't click it's a short get together. If you do click, then it becomes a long heavenly ongoing relationship which can be repeated over many years... IMHO

I had to find a new ATF some years back since the one that was my ATF ended up moving to another city. It was a pain in the ass, and I had been seeing the previous ATF for a number of years. I, unfortunately, picked unwisely with the new ATF since she got past my BS detector and had more than a few loose screws, but was a good screw for a short time. We seemed to click and she seemed to have a good mind, but reality was another matter.

So I decided I would do what Doodle and EA have written. I like familiarity in the real world, but here... I don't get close and that is what an ATF is. Like has been written, even if the girl is so into the time with me she sounds like mac-n-cheese when going at it and absolutely rocks my world, I don’t repeat - not worth the potential trouble.

Taint is an ATF whoever serves it.