I would have to say yes it is directly related, but then again what part of sex is NOT somehow linked to porn? I mean monkey see, monkey do.
Originally Posted by London Rayne
I am a bit older than you and about 90% of what I know about sex came from two sources: the gutter and my imagination, which isn't all that fertile.
The basics of sex are pretty well-defined and seemingly easy to learn. The fetish worlds seem to have existed well before porn became universally available on the internet. However, stuff like COF, DT and kitty slapping weren't part of the general sexual repertoire and now there are generations of kids (and some adults) who think this stuff is normal and old hat.
My contention is a lot of this stuff is fundamentally demeaning to women, but every time one of these practices is discussed there are women who say it turns them on. Who am I to disagree?
This kitty tapping/slapping seems pretty benign to me but it also doesn't seem particularly erotic except as an element of play or as a sexual amuse-bouche to lightly stimulate the vagina. Given the reactions to this thread, I am not sure I’ll be tapping any kitties real soon.