I take it as a sign that I really shouldn't have been doing this anyway, and go back to work.
Hmmm, 15 responses and not a single female has chimed in.
This topic has been discuss predominately by men, but I think it deserves a woman's perspective. I would like to preface that nothing I say or allude to has any direct connection to anyone here on the board. These are simply things I think about.The answer is obvious and simple.
Cancellations are a pain in the ass. I understand that everyone has an outside life, and that sometimes things come up, so this is not a complaint on the individual but on the event itself. What does a girl do with an open afternoon and a now empty bed? Burn our clits off with a vibrator? No, that is not nearly as satisfying as a romp in the sheets. How do females plan for a plan B? This isn't like hailing a cab, it is much more complex than that and a lot more frustrating. So what have others done? And on the other side of the token, what do men do? Is there a comparable physical activity that offers the same release of endorphins? Don't tell me to go for a run, it is 96 degrees outside.
All ranting aside, I am interested in the various anecdotes you have to remedy sexual frustration. In and out of the hobby, sometimes disappointing circumstances arise and the prize just slips out of our bed.
Tell me your remedies! Originally Posted by BelleAustin
I am not opposed to one night stands, nor am I entirely opposed to sex without a donation. However, the second option is tricky. The exchange of donation creates a boundary that is essential for both parties, me and you (or whomever). In my opinion, it solidifies the "no strings attached" rule. That rule is a hard limit for me. If Originally Posted by BelleAustinFred Garvin - male prostitute:
I'm not sure what a threAD is, but I will check with urbandictionary.A $10 individual special with a "No review" condition solves that problem. I'm thinking threAD but that's OK because they are allowed here.
I am not opposed to one night stands, nor am I entirely opposed to sex without a donation. However, the second option is tricky. The exchange of donation creates a boundary that is essential for both parties, me and you (or whomever). In my opinion, it solidifies the "no strings attached" rule.
. Originally Posted by BelleAustin