Intelligent conversation

  • Vyt
  • 07-02-2011, 02:58 AM
There is almost nothing more of a turn on to me than a woman who can keep up with me in an argument.
I think it can be said that from a lady's standpoint, it's more of an issue to know how far to go with a particular person. For those not threatened by differences of opinion, conversation is great. Then there are those who are either intimidated by another's viewpoints or cannot logically articulate their own opinions, they don't like it when things get deep. When I hear a person's opinion on something, I know whether or not they're open-minded enough to hear my view. If not, I change the subject to something more pertinent to our endeavor.
It is one of the little serendipities that the hobby provides from time to time. I love good conversation when it breaks out and for me..it can tremendously enhance the experience...Autumn Stark of Dallas comes to mind...Lilianna from K.C. and Katherine Butler of New Mexico all are charming to chat with. As far as a spirited argument..that is an element of what I do for a living so I tend to gently sidestep that during recreational pursuits.
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True professional COMPANIONS have to be able to assess the situation and maintain the debate (if one is wanted by her patron) withing civil parameters. She should also know just when to STFU ))

Believe it or not, it requires a lot more skill than may seem at first glance.

Lina
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If I am paying a large sum of money for companionship I prefer someone who lets me have all the things I want from her ass, her pussy and her boobies.

I am also that way when the sum of money required of me is modest.

Just the other day a lady kicked me out of her house because I expressed opinions on the schools and the hatred of talent, merit and intelligence displayed by so many school teachers, - that she obviously did not like.

In the process she said Einstein was a psychopath and Paul Gauguin a pedophile and she didn't want people like that in her house.

Luckily, this conversation occured after she had placed her ass on my face and jerked me off to completion, for a moderate amount of money. The ass was voluminous enough but it smelled like brocolli. Unless it was the panties as she never took them off. Originally Posted by Raphael
I am not sure I have ever laughed so hard than over the "Brocolli BUTT" or, um, panties statement...wow, thanks.
I find that I tend to listen more than give my views - it's usually interesting, and people assume I agree with them anyway. People usually just like to listen to themselves.
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An intelligent conversation need not be a debate... I grow very tired of people who can't understand that, and I'm sure I'm not alone there. I really enjoy hearing all about my boys, as they are fascinating people! I'm told I've got some pretty interesting insights myself, and I think I've been dealt a pretty unusual hand in life that makes for some good stories There is so much more to do than fight, and that's just in regards to talking. There are many things I'd rather do than talk!

However, in no way am I paid to agree with you. As a matter of fact, I do not know of an amount of money that could come between me and my principles (although there are some really interesting studies that seek to quantify that amount, look them up if you're into medical ethics). If I disagree with you, I'm going to tell you so. If you explain your views in such a way that indicates that you've clearly thought out the issue and simply reached a different conclusion than I have, then that's cool. We just have different priorities, it doesn't mean we can't get down

Men's egos can be quite delicate. Some men don't like my (much) less than sugarcoated approach to, well, pretty much everything except for lingerie, roleplay and porn. To be blunt, I really can't imagine caring less. There are more than enough men who appreciate it, and those are generally the kind of guys I appreciate myself.
An intelligent conversation need not be a debate... I grow very tired of people who can't understand that, and I'm sure I'm not alone there. I really enjoy hearing all about my boys, as they are fascinating people! I'm told I've got some pretty interesting insights myself, and I think I've been dealt a pretty unusual hand in life that makes for some good stories There is so much more to do than fight, and that's just in regards to talking. There are many things I'd rather do than talk!

However, in no way am I paid to agree with you. As a matter of fact, I do not know of an amount of money that could come between me and my principles (although there are some really interesting studies that seek to quantify that amount, look them up if you're into medical ethics). If I disagree with you, I'm going to tell you so. If you explain your views in such a way that indicates that you've clearly thought out the issue and simply reached a different conclusion than I have, then that's cool. We just have different priorities, it doesn't mean we can't get down

Men's egos can be quite delicate. Some men don't like my (much) less than sugarcoated approach to, well, pretty much everything except for lingerie, roleplay and porn. To be blunt, I really can't imagine caring less. There are more than enough men who appreciate it, and those are generally the kind of guys I appreciate myself. Originally Posted by Madame X
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Ole Cumandgitit needs to have someone who can talk, discuss and otherwise pontificate on a wide variety of subjects in order to be entertained, since he cannot have any REAL adventures. He means, . . . . well, . . . WTF, what's a person to do when one's imaginary partner has been worn down to a frazzle by an oooooooooold man and is unable to move for an hour or so? Just lie there in stunned silence? No, he needs someone who can speak while recovering!! Intelligence is golden.
I believe in intelligent debate, that being said, it depends on the parties involved and how they express their opinions. I think I am an open person, and by that I mean open to new ideas, not just in the bedroom, but in life. Some men may not be interested in that, it all depends what they desire in their companion.
The true skill of any lady here is being able to read their companion from first meeting, body language, conversation, etc, and being able to read if debating topics is an area they should delve into or not. Some men like a spirited debate, others do not, neither is better or worse. I keep myself up on all current affairs and am very well educated-personally I love a good conversation. Sometimes all someone wants is for you to listen, or just get down like a porn star and that's fine too
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I think a spirited debate would lead to more talking which means less sex, which is never a good thing. Complete agreement would be boring, but the sex by contrast would be much more interesting.
than a nice looking woman who is vibrant and interesting and funny and confidant and who seems truly interested in conversation....

someone smart is quite aphrodisiacal.....
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  • WTF
  • 08-04-2011, 09:36 AM
Ole Cumandgitit needs to have someone who can talk, discuss and otherwise pontificate on a wide variety of subjects in order to be entertained, since he cannot have any REAL adventures. He means, . . . . well, . . . WTF, what's a person to do when one's imaginary partner has been worn down to a frazzle by an oooooooooold man and is unable to move for an hour or so? Just lie there in stunned silence? No, he needs someone who can speak while recovering!! Intelligence is golden. Originally Posted by Cumandgitit




I talk way more than I fuc!
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I talk way more than I fuc! Originally Posted by WTF

It's about equal for me lol