NBA Policies...why?

I hear they have big dicks, and like to fuck the whole hour, some girls have a problem with that. Originally Posted by jacksparrow

That would be a N "gg" A policy...

Why an NBA policy? Because this is America and one can do whatever one wants to do.

Sofia, those people piss me off. I have nothing against any races, but the guys (not only AA) that wear their pants at their hips and CAN'T EVEN WALK piss me off. They even wear board shorts under their jeans. WTF??? I think they're just trying to make so easy access to their assholes. It's probably something they learned in prison. Again, my hate is for the thugs who wear their jeans like that. I've seen white, Latino, AA, etc. I'm not singling out a race. Originally Posted by metal_head

Pants on the ground? I hate it also, have commented on and told many a young man where pants hanging down comes from. It comes from prison, inmates that play the female/punk role in prison, would wear their pants without a belt and hanging down for easier access to give up the rear end. My final comment to a young male wearing his pants this way is: "So that's what you want? To get your shit pushed in??"

Why an NBA policy? Because this is America and one can do whatever one wants to do.



Pants on the ground? I hate it also, have commented on and told many a young man where pants hanging down comes from. It comes from prison, inmates that play the female/punk role in prison, would wear their pants without a belt and hanging down for easier access to give up the rear end. My final comment to a young male wearing his pants this way is: "So that's what you want? To get your shit pushed in??" Originally Posted by oldbreed

Just so you know... in jail, they take your belt away when you are processed in... just sayin'...

If someone turns me down... I do NOT want an explanation... no sense rubbing salt in the wound....

Well..I am AA and it's like II2 said, "If someone doesn't want to see you because your Afr Amer...that's their issue not yours." In my own hobby life, I have seen enough providers out there that it doesn't bother me.
Including (2) ladies in the string..Brooke Wild and Sensuous Lydia....they didn't give a fuck but they both gave me a fucking I will never forget. Brooke is The Bomb and Lydia is Nitroglycerin!

How much more explanation do you really need? Here's a formula chart I made just for this thread.

Hobbing scenario 1
Hobbiest (any color or age) offers $$$ ------>Provider says no--PROBLEM---But Why? Because she is simply not interested, had a past incident or either she doesn't find AA men to be her thing. Remember this isn't a business you can go and sue because she didn't cater to your race or age.------ SOLUTION----- and say NEXT

Hobbing scenario 2
Hobbiest(any color or age) offers $$$------ Provider says yes-----Jackpot

Caution: If you sit around and stick to scenario 1 your going to have many long nights of and

I mean seriously you don't go to a club or bar and ask a girl why when she shoots you down. This is a hobby. Originally Posted by mojojo213

Mojo, that is basically what I trying to say. I was joking with the ESPN headline (it is an actual headline) thought is was funny.

It IS simple, I contact provider A, we correspond(e) ?, she knows all about me, I know some about her, we decide to or not to meet. I move on, lol. The DED reference was nevermind, lol .... You'd have to know him, lol. I dont do black men either so I too have a NBA policy .......

Just so you know... in jail, they take your belt away when you are processed in... just sayin'... Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

And you don't know the difference between jail and prison? I haven't been to prison, but in my younger days I have been to jail.

No worries! Back on topic and back to lurking!

Damn

I was always told the hobbyists are just green.

Flipping the coin, how about guys with NBA policies. No doubt they are out there.

Not me. I'm bummed I never gave Kara Lynn Kelly the best 45 seconds of her life.

The NBA thing is something I'll never worry about. They have their reasons for not seeing black men just as me as a hobbyist having my reasons to move on with my money to someone else.

It's just that simple!

As an AA male- I don't get offended if i see an AD that stays NBA- it's certaintly the provider's option of who they want to see. I have heard horror stories from providers about AA men- mainly young immature who try to low ball- want samples, etc. There are hobbyist who will not see Big girls so what's the difference. If a provider doesn't want to see me b/c of race i will move on.
I personally will not see a provider who I think is associated with a pimp or is a drug user- my money my chocie- providers have that same option also- and trust me not all of the providers with NBA rules are racist because I know some AA providers who will not see a certain age of AA men. If every man regardless of race would treat the escortts with respect and if escort would provide what is advertise we would not have this conversation.

and trust me not all of the providers with NBA rules are racist because I know some AA providers who will not see a certain age of AA men. If every man regardless of race would treat the escortts with respect and if escort would provide what is advertise we would not have this conversation. Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Or if EVERY provider would simply screen, we wouldn't be having this problem. Not seeing Black men or young men, or young black men is not the most effective way to avoid trouble. Screening is. The guy that strangled a provider in Austin to death last year was white. I have seen plenty of young guys and plenty of AA guys and none of them have been trouble -- because I checked their references.

And frankly, I don't care how my clients wear their f'n pants. That's an aesthetic issue. Sagging pants are not my style, but I have to admit I wore pants that were WAY too big for me in 8th and 9th grade (I actually also would alternate them with bell bottoms in that phase of my life. Double yuck!). I've also worn all kinds of other ridiculous things for the sake of fashion. Baggy pants are a part of hip hop culture and not everyone who dresses that way is going to pull a gun or has been to prison. I don't particularly care for the way a lot of my clients dress but it doesn't matter when the clothes come off.

Or if EVERY provider would simply screen, we wouldn't be having this problem. Not seeing Black men or young men, or young black men is not the most effective way to avoid trouble. Screening is. The guy that strangled a provider in Austin to death last year was white. I have seen plenty of young guys and plenty of AA guys and none of them have been trouble -- because I checked their references.

And frankly, I don't care how my clients wear their f'n pants. That's an aesthetic issue. Sagging pants are not my style, but I have to admit I wore pants that were WAY too big for me in 8th and 9th grade (I actually also would alternate them with bell bottoms in that phase of my life. Double yuck!). I've also worn all kinds of other ridiculous things for the sake of fashion. Baggy pants are a part of hip hop culture and not everyone who dresses that way is going to pull a gun or has been to prison. I don't particularly care for the way a lot of my clients dress but it doesn't matter when the clothes come off. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

+1

Or if EVERY provider would simply screen, we wouldn't be having this problem. Not seeing Black men or young men, or young black men is not the most effective way to avoid trouble. Screening is. The guy that strangled a provider in Austin to death last year was white. I have seen plenty of young guys and plenty of AA guys and none of them have been trouble -- because I checked their references.

And frankly, I don't care how my clients wear their f'n pants. That's an aesthetic issue. Sagging pants are not my style, but I have to admit I wore pants that were WAY too big for me in 8th and 9th grade (I actually also would alternate them with bell bottoms in that phase of my life. Double yuck!). I've also worn all kinds of other ridiculous things for the sake of fashion. Baggy pants are a part of hip hop culture and not everyone who dresses that way is going to pull a gun or has been to prison. I don't particularly care for the way a lot of my clients dress but it doesn't matter when the clothes come off. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

+2

I [heart] Sensual Sophia!

Or if EVERY provider would simply screen, we wouldn't be having this problem. Not seeing Black men or young men, or young black men is not the most effective way to avoid trouble. Screening is. The guy that strangled a provider in Austin to death last year was white. I have seen plenty of young guys and plenty of AA guys and none of them have been trouble -- because I checked their references.

And frankly, I don't care how my clients wear their f'n pants. That's an aesthetic issue. Sagging pants are not my style, but I have to admit I wore pants that were WAY too big for me in 8th and 9th grade (I actually also would alternate them with bell bottoms in that phase of my life. Double yuck!). I've also worn all kinds of other ridiculous things for the sake of fashion. Baggy pants are a part of hip hop culture and not everyone who dresses that way is going to pull a gun or has been to prison. I don't particularly care for the way a lot of my clients dress but it doesn't matter when the clothes come off. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

Sphia with all do respect sometimes you can't entirely go on screening. Remember the case with the med school guy who killed the escort last year? I mean come on he was a clean cut white guy who was a med school student- someone you hardly think would try to rob or murder you. I have heard cases where ladies have screened men and the men were professional appearing and acting until something ticked them off and made them do what they do- so sad is it screening a guy will not always assure you a safe session it should but it's not a perfect world.