I think what she's asking is why more guys don't reach out to AA ladies. I think it's a preference thing. Personally, I'm color blind and have PMd two beautiful AA ladies who I hope to see in the next month (for the record I'm Hispanic). As in real life, you're going to have your racist people who will not see AA, you're going to have "curious" people who will see you because you are AA. And you are going to have the vast majority who may see you - or may not - based on other criteria. Tin Man is right. I would say the three most important offerings to a guy are BBBJ, DATY, and DFK. If you don't offer two of them (and it's your choice), those are key characteristics and you lose a big demographic. That said, you have 8 reviews in less than two months. That's better than many providers out here.
Originally Posted by Looking41today
Better? I'm not sure. But it definitely says that she's made an impression on someone.
I've never felt like my color was a big issue. Not ever. But an open mind (and menu) may attribute to that fact as well. I welcome the curious and the Negro Lovers alike, as these interactions are what open minds. And I know there are some that like me as a person, but aren't attracted to me because of my color. And that's cool too.
I don't worry about who doesn't want to see me, because I'm happy about the ones who do.