Thoughts on providing work info as a form of reference?

Just remember if you give up RW information it WILL go into a database. Remember what happened with AshleyMadison. A lot of guys had some explaining to do when they got hacked. If you are comfortable with this information and are willing to accept the possible consequences by all means go for it. Originally Posted by Clark W. Griswold

I think the parent company is the same for Eccie as Ashley Madison. There was a problem with this site back last April. And really? A database. Girls all run their business differently, but very few keep a detailed record.

@ OP.... I host out of one of my homes when I see the select few I choose to spend time with each month. I accept nothing less than real world, verifiable information. This is a very dark, dark world. Guys have no clue how bad it really is or can be if you are playing around at the bottom end of things. I can't believe the situations that some guys will put themselves in just to get their dicks wet. I see a couple of clients that are featured in the NewYorktimes often, and a few other high profile, affluent clients that had absolutely no problem screening. I have overwhelming amounts of screening forms that come in, with about 75% being completed.

IMHO you should not be seeing girls that you would have to worry about having your information, technically they have you by the balls anyway. If she gives you a gift that keeps on giving, look into them before you try to say everything is safe horse shit. HPV, syphilis, how about herpes? Body contact and contact with any bodily fluid. But.... you think that whore is going to be at that same dive motel you let her suck you c*^k in last month when your life was somewhat normal, when you just refused to give up your info and took the easy route? Think you could sleep on the couch, or was it covered with clothes, towels, diapers, etc?

Hell, if it is that easy it should be free because it is not worth having because everyone else already has!

@ OP.... I host out of one of my homes when I see the select few I choose to spend time with each month. I accept nothing less than real world, verifiable information.
! Originally Posted by kayleemarie

Girl exactly!

I don't think Eccie is owned by Ruby (AM owner).I'd bet on it.Especially since it was a fake Ashley Madison site popping up and advertising here prior to the Secret Benefits annoyance.If you looked carefully, the website was ashleyrnadison.com.That's an R and N instead of an M.I think it was a phishing site.

That said, of course you should screen however you need to screen to feel safe. But remember, not all providers are reputable. Some are in this game because of desperation and desperate people do desperate things when cornered. It’s a sad reality.

I don't think Eccie is owned by Ruby (AM owner).I'd bet on it.Especially since it was a fake Ashley Madison site popping up and advertising here prior to the Secret Benefits annoyance.If you looked carefully, the website was ashleyrnadison.com.That's an R and N instead of an M.I think it was a phishing site.

That said, of course you should screen however you need to screen to feel safe. But remember, not all providers are reputable. Some are in this game because of desperation and desperate people do desperate things when cornered. It’s a sad reality. Originally Posted by LimitlessJD

I noticed that it was gone but did not pay too much attention to the differences, I liked the set of tits on AM better than the tiny ass on SB. Lol

But yes, I feel that a gentleman should stay in his own league when he is searching for companionship. I cater to the more elite crowd to stay in my own league as well.

I have one of the most unique homes anyone has ever seen. It blows guys away when they see my collections. One of my places steals my thunder when meeting new friends for the first time! The are in awe of my place and not just me

I see where people guys are coming from, but you have to look at all surrounding facts. A low volume, high end escort is worth her weight in gold in some areas.

Kaylee,

You may be shocked, but i agree with ou 100%. If you’re dealing with more legit, upscale people (on both sides), you mitigate the risk. My ATF and I travel together and are frequently in public. It would be impossible for us not to know each other’s RW info. I’m much more comfortable with her having it than a random girl I might meet at a bar.

I also operate (and so does she)in a very discrete manner. No reviews, etc. So if we were outed, there would be limited liability. Like you, she has a very nice home where she meets gentleman, and it works for her as well because of her clientele.

If I find myself up your way, I’ll gladly give you my passport and business card, lol.

PS. I miss the breasticles as well!

Well thank you LimitlessJD. I get that a lot. Not because it is the best way to end or avoid and argument, because I am a really down to earth, one in a million kind of girl, hanging with me is like hanging with one of your best buddies that you have known your whole life. Don't get me started on the #MeToo movement. That might be a 6 pack attack night topic. I kinda like having them if you look at my last postings when I had to dumb it down to communicate with a stalker of mine from the area that I refused to see because he a low budget range most of the time. I would rather lick a turnstyle in a NY subway before even laying beside this man with no contact....

But in public I am as sweet as sugar and could charm a snake oil salesman. When I was first at a gathering of some local politicians, my friend congratulated me and told me how impressed he was that I could charm and older gay man, to watch out because we might be visually fucking the same man. I had to stop him right there, I was taken because I really did not catch on that this man had sugar in his tank, but even more so because I was checking out this burnette that had legs that was highly defined, an awesome little shitter, and some titties that just reminded you of all reasons why you love them. You know, one of them moments that just make you all fuzzy feeling?

But, back to topic. Sorry about that. Lol. To most that I have attended functions with or knows me from the real world, I am typically known as a legend for nothing but the right reasons. Very outspoken but tend to have a good time with it. I offer food for thought and good memories. I genuinely have a good time with the ladies and gentlemen I chose to spend time with and travel with.

I do my dating life this way, because the one thing that has to be understood upfront with me, I am not looking to catch feelings or for no one else to, I break hearts all the time by not spelling it out to friends. I can not go out alone without every man in the bar or half the club trying to take me home. That's not my kind of scene. Never has been, never will be. I don't want just and random dick in my place. But if I have a companion, it works out great, I know everyone is staring at me, he knows everyone is staring at me, but I don't give a damn because at that point in time, he is all that matters to me.

But get this, I have made quite a few Houston friends, men and women alike. I have a very near and dear friend that lives in Houston. I will be coming down soon and be hanging out with a very select few lucky gentlemen. I would love to see you! When does it get hotter than two rats fucking in a wool sock in TX? I am not a fan of the heat.

Sorry it is so long, a lot of people know that I am a writer. Have been working on a book for a few years now under a pen name to possibly later be revealed here when published.

Thanks for the detailed reply and certainly keep in touch.