To me, the definition of an ATF, would have to be, the best sex you ever had by a mile. While I understand how becoming good friends with one of these ladies, sharing, time off the clock, mutual appreciation of one's time, all those things are great to but for me, it comes back to the sex because the sex is what I'm looking for.Problem was, as I said, she lived about 35 miles away and didn't drive. It cost me an extra hundred for the driver but I didn't care, she was worth it but it presented the problem of never really getting to know her accept on our date. She lived with a guy, I never really asked about the relationship but me going to her place was out of the question.
I'm 73. I've been "dating" for about 45 of those years. I've led a very Hedonistic life going to nudest resorts mostly in the Caribbean, Club Med, Hedonism, Sandels. Swingers vacations, on premise sex clubs like Plato's Retreat in New York and Trapeze here in South Florida.
So I've had hundreds and hundreds of encounters and I can say without reservation, the lady I just described, is the best sex I ever had, nobody came close.
For any of you old timer Porn enthusiast, that is a picture of Savanna, I had taken at an AVN Awards show in Vegas many years ago. A Blonde Goddess if ever there was one.
Originally Posted by HedonistForever
If you are to put it purely from a carnal perspective, then I would very easily say a provider I met recently. I'll just call her Miss K because she is still very much active, and I'm not giving away my little secret gold mine. But, to describe it a bit more extensively...
She is quite literally a former model and drop dead gorgeous, which is why I refused to meet her at first without video chatting with her to verify she actually was the woman from the pictures, because I just couldn't believe it. Okay, first criteria met : beauty
Secondly, she really is a dirty nymph. I'm not going to get graphic on here, but she's volunteered to do one specific thing that only 1 other girl I've seen in the past was seemingly "eager" to do.
That being said, how can I possibly say she is overall the best experience I've ever had when:
A: she is usually running a bit late, is not significantly
B: She doesn't always respond to communication in a timely fashion
C: She insist on vaping in the room prior to session starting, and at this point sometimes we are already nude (to her credit, it doesn't smell terrible like cigarette smoke would)
D: She is by far way more expensive than any other provider I have ever seen.
E: Whether deliberately watching the clock or not, she always manages to leave right around 60 minutes, with a minimal goodbye.
F: Last time I saw her, she was unable to accommodate my outfit request
So, while the sex in and of itself is great, and she is always exquisitely delicious to taste, smell and look at, there are other factors that compose the entire process. That's where another girl I have referenced here on ECCIE, though not by name, kind of surpassed this super model I am talking about. After the 2nd time I saw this other girl, she always put my mind at ease. Any time I picked up my phone and was about to contact her, I already knew ahead of time I wasn't going to have any problem of any kind. No drama, and she did a lot more listening than talking. Peace of mind goes a long way for me, even if Miss K has a slight edge on sexual technique. Not to say that I don't enjoy my time with the new super model, I just look at the overall experience collectively.