What makes your ATF your ATF?

When I started this hobby, I always thought atf was handed out like bubble gum in a pack of trading cards and it was just an over used and under appreciated term.
Then on June 14th, 2011 I met her!!! What makes her my atf you asked? She gets me! She puts a smile on my face that no one else could come close to! I'm so blessed she entered my life, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her. I know whole heartly that she will always be my atf! I am so lucky that she feels the same way with me! Originally Posted by canuckvic

Wonder who that is? lol

My Hobby ATF:

Treats me like a princess.
Never takes me for granted.
Has taken a full time job residing between my legs.

Fucking Loving it.

Je ne sais quoi

Impossible to answer well, in words!

I'm such an olde dawg. . . the days of having only one ATF are long past!
But I have one Hell of a handfull

Wonder who that is? lol Originally Posted by burkalini

Guilty!!

For a girl to be my ATF there must be chemistry, great attitude, attractive, great at making me feel relaxed and comfortable enough to talk about anything when we are together. She knows what I like and I her likes. More like being with a best friend with benefits and even sometimes with the gf you have always dreamed of having. Yeah it's a business, but if she makes me forget that part of it I will be back for more. Have had that for the past 3+ years and still keep going back.

My ATF is my ATF because there is no one like her. I find myself calling her, not necessarily for sex, but just to be around her, to feel that bliss that I feel when I see her again for the first time, to hear the soft music in her voice when she talks to me.

Other ladies are beautiful and smart and can carry on a stimulating conversation or suck my cock until I cum or fuck me senseless, but none of them can be her.

My ATF, is probally because you can interact with her very easily good chemistry and easy to talk too, as i'm a queit person. I also like if she would interact with me when we dont have a date set. Nothing big just send a message now and then makes you feel like she is thinkng of you.

Of course the sex has too be good enogh to keep you cumming back for more!!!

I'm beginning to take an interest in how many gents are describing their ATF's like they are in deeply committed relationships. Lot's of "love language" being thrown about here in this thread.

I agree JD. These descriptions sound a lot like feelings of love.One must always realize that a great ATF makes you feel like a king but when its all said and down with at the end of the session you still have to pay for her affection.

I agree JD. These descriptions sound a lot like feelings of love.One must always realize that a great ATF makes you feel like a king but when its all said and down with at the end of the session you still have to pay for her affection. Originally Posted by PB&J

Uh huh. You ever been married? How about dated anyone seriously?

Let's just say that if we were to compare the costs of marriage to my SO against the number of times we had sex, I'd have to conclude that my ATF was THE GREATEST BARGAIN, EVER!!

In the end, everybody pays.

I'm beginning to take an interest in how many gents are describing their ATF's like they are in deeply committed relationships. Lot's of "love language" being thrown about here in this thread. Originally Posted by JDNorthface

For some guys an ATF is defined by the the number and intensity of the orgasms. Nothing else matters.

For others there is a much more complex value function, and it includes real aspects of care and friendship.

Those guys in the first category will never comprehend the second group; they don't have/want it so it doesn't happen. Those in the second category often feel the first group is missing out on a lot.

There is a long continuum from strictly lust to being in love, with lots of room for a true ATF-Friend in between.

This month marks my atf second year of personal/sexual heavenly bliss. Without him, I have no confidant and no strong shoulders to lean on. He walked into my room a couple weeks after my birthday and I still recall how he looked straight into my eyes as he talked to me. He didn't ask alot of questions, just wanted to put me at ease and seemed so comfortable in my presence. There isn't really anything he does not know about me and he still accepts me warts and all. (no I don't have warts but you know the jest). It helps that he lives nearby and so we visit frequently. I'd be lost without him, his heart is as beautiful as his cock and I desire him always. Waited a long time to meet someone and he was worth every minute. I guess the most important aspect is honesty, acceptance and chemistry. I have never known anyone who treated me so kind and gave me so much to admire.

I have had 3 ATF's in the last 3 or 4 years and they do send you nice messages thru out the week to let you know they are thinking of you and you also get where you share alot of personal things but when it is all said and done it comes down to the $$$. I learned the hard way that they care for you as long as you are seeing them on a regular basis and paying but if you stop seeing them they move on and so do you. It is a hobby and a business for them and this is how they make their living. Nothing wrong with it at all you just need to understand you are her special person as long as the money if flowing. It is that way in any business, those that pay, get the best service. There are some really nice ladies that have become ATF's for me and some I no longer see but they are still my ATF as I have some sweet sweet memeories. Thank you ladies, yes I love you all.

For some guys an ATF is defined by the the number and intensity of the orgasms. Nothing else matters.

For others there is a much more complex value function, and it includes real aspects of care and friendship.

Those guys in the first category will never comprehend the second group; they don't have/want it so it doesn't happen. Those in the second category often feel the first group is missing out on a lot.

There is a long continuum from strictly lust to being in love, with lots of room for a true ATF-Friend in between. Originally Posted by Old-T

I concur!!

This month marks my atf second year of personal/sexual heavenly bliss. Without him, I have no confidant and no strong shoulders to lean on. He walked into my room a couple weeks after my birthday and I still recall how he looked straight into my eyes as he talked to me. He didn't ask alot of questions, just wanted to put me at ease and seemed so comfortable in my presence. There isn't really anything he does not know about me and he still accepts me warts and all. (no I don't have warts but you know the jest). It helps that he lives nearby and so we visit frequently. I'd be lost without him, his heart is as beautiful as his cock and I desire him always. Waited a long time to meet someone and he was worth every minute. I guess the most important aspect is honesty, acceptance and chemistry. I have never known anyone who treated me so kind and gave me so much to admire. Originally Posted by cinderbella

This to me is what atf is all about and I know my atf feels the same way. There is nothing we wouldn't do for each other!! There has been sitiuations that we both have been blessed that we were able to help each other out and there probably wasn't anyone else either of us could of turned to. She sells sanctuary!

I concur!!



This to me is what atf is all about and I know my atf feels the same way. There is nothing we wouldn't do for each other!! There has been sitiuations that we both have been blessed that we were able to help each other out and there probably wasn't anyone else either of us could of turned to. She sells sanctuary! Originally Posted by canuckvic

Dayum! Like that huh...wow! I was right all along...enjoii my Canadian buddy! I've found mine too! And unlike my prior TOP TENs, etc. this one, I won't list here...she doesn't know yet but my dick knows!

ATF is not something that is 'made'(IT happens...), certain aspects are instantaneous, yet the rest occurs over time (building trust)/redefining lust vs. trueness, only gets better each time and with time but not of effort, SHE is my ATF without effort and without knowing...ATF becomes...(yet SHE does not know...at least for now)...she's the type that makes me utter "I love you" before I can catch myself, glad she didn't hear me...Mmmmm

SHE's my ATF