Dames, it's not the screening that most people have a problem with - it's the screener.
Your personality (described by someone else on this board as “prickly”) doesn't inspire confidence that you can be trusted with personal information. You fly off the handle at the tiniest perceived slight and don't hesitate to retaliate against hobbyists who cross you. You recall things that happened years ago, trash former clients online and even make fun of people who only contacted you for information. Your own behavior scares away more clients than anything other people do.
Originally Posted by lustylad
This is only partly true. Ya, I already said I'm the soup nazi. It's true. I have zero tolerance for bullshit. There are times when I could be nicer and I do cause some of my own problems. It's a stressful business and sometimes I do lose my temper and regret it.
But screening isn't just for safety. I'm also trying to weed out the guys who won't respect our policies. First of all, read the fucking instructions. If the ad says don't PM, then don't fucking PM. If the instructions say provide a listed number, then don't give me an unlisted cell. I'm not looking for clients who are too dumb to follow basic instructions. And I'm not looking for clients who disregard instructions and assume they don't apply to them.
Come correct or no soup for you.
And the
fundamental problem isn't my attitude. The fundamental problem is the lack of respect for me doing things my way. Some guys don't want to be screened and it wouldn't matter if I was nicer than an onstar representative on liquid oxy ...if I decline someone they're often going to be a bitter angry little monkey.
And a few points for the record. Right now there's a "secret" thread in the men's room about me. Bunch of shitheads wondering how I get hot girls. Um, a big part of it is because I screen. Legit college girls don't want to take chances. Ask Sienna how indys worked out for her. And it's not just screening. Their job is to be nice to yinz. My job is to make sure yinz are nice (be on time, don't stay over, don't violate safety rules etc). The girls like the strict rules. They have shit to do and don't like sitting here waiting 25 minutes because someone is late. Because without someone like me around, some of you take advantage and stay later etc. And you use the threat of a negative review and damaging a girl's "reputation" as leverage. Shocking I know.
(and btw a LOT of people still have land lines. people with children keep residential land lines for 911 reasons. almost all businesses maintain listed numbers to, ya know, attract business)
And what so many of the haters don't mention is I run a legitimate service. No fake pics. No ripoffs. Punctual appointments. Best soup in town. For most of my clients that's what it's about, the amazing soup. But some of the folks on here, well their actual "hobby" seems to be posting on the boards.
Finally, I don't "retaliate" against anyone. Denying soup is pretty much my only weapon. If you bash me on here I"m going to defend myself. But if you pay attention you'll notice I don't
start drama on here. If I "trash" someone it's because they attack me first, and usually over and over. Don't believe me? Go back and read the threads, in chronological order. My normal mode is to post very little. I don't even post a lot of ads.
