Everyone, what is the best way to respond when your time is up and your getting ready to leave, and the client sais to you: You can stay longer if you want.
I always lie and say I would love to but I take care of my sick mother and she needs her medication.
Recently, someone said to me: you can stay the NIGHT if you want. I don't have the money to pay you, but you can stay and hang out if you want.
Is it wrong of me to think that is soooo rude to put me on the spot like that? Because I think it is damn rude.
Originally Posted by incognito isis
We all have different perspectives on life situations, so I see it as neither "wrong" nor "right" for you to consider such a request to be rude.
I have had my share of gents offer the same thing, but it has usually occurred with the patrons with whom I already have a good rapport. I.E. it is understood that I will simply be "crashing" so to speak...perhaps staying for breakfast in bed...but THAT IS IT.
What about clients who ask me what my plans are for the rest of the evening? The appointment is almost over, and the client sais: so what do you have planned for the rest of the night? Again, none of their buisiness.
I don't want to be rude and say, why do you need to know what my plans are? BUT I have said that. They just shrug it off.
How do I handle a client who asks about my personal life? I don't think my personal life is anyones buisiness. Plus, he could be getting clingy and planning on bugging me to date him. What is the best way to handle this?
Originally Posted by incognito isis
Oftentimes the gent is just making small talk...I have asked similar questions when wrapping up a dinner engagement and saying goodbyes... He will be walking me to valet and I'll ask, "So, are you going to be playing any more Blackjack tonight or hitting any clubs?" or something like that. I am in no way implying that he should spend more time with me, I am just honestly curious what he'll be doing along with making polite and "safe" chit-chat while walking through the casino.
If you feel he is being nosy, just keep it polite and simple and say, "Oh, I'm going straight home as I have an early morning."
Very personal questions about your life are your choice on whether or not to answer. Nothing wrong with a coy smile and, "I prefer to keep that a secret" or even just gently letting him know you are uncomfortable answering such personal questions.
Orrrrr, just go in for a kiss to end the conversation all together!