Negative Reviews

I had a bad review about 5 or 6 years ago on aspd. I took it as constructive criticism.
Review Said:
I looked old & was overweight .... I began advertising as a "Petite BBW, GILF"
I was missing teeth... Started a "Toothless French" special (No Biting Guaranteed)

Reviews should be written for the sole purpose of sharing a factual experience for the education of others.

Oy...abuela linda...Que pasa? Te deseo.

I may never tire of looking at that ass. In fact ... I'd like to wear it as a HAT! Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

hee hee hee he said 'ass...hat'

Well then maybe a new booty shot!

Well then maybe a new booty shot! Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe

Can I "shoot" it?

I had a bad review about 5 or 6 years ago on aspd. I took it as constructive criticism.
Review Said:
I looked old & was overweight .... I began advertising as a "Petite BBW, GILF"
I was missing teeth... Started a "Toothless French" special (No Biting Guaranteed)

Reviews should be written for the sole purpose of sharing a factual experience for the education of others. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

I remember that one. Did you grow new teeth?

I don't remember you as being overweight, though!

Que paso?

I remember that one. Did you grow new teeth? Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

Nah, Santa brought me some for X-Mas

Marley, you should use your ass as a cast to make more fluffy and not so fluffy copies of your ass so we can have something to hugg and dream about every night.

I love talking about how things went. There will always be things to improve on and it's nice to know what those things are and suggestions on how to fix them. Most people don't change unless they know they're supposed to. Only posting negatives in private, doesn't allow her to change the behavior or make it right, depending on the circumstances.

I don't like the idea of "punishing" providers with reviews, making it that personal isn't likely to be productive for either side.

Is a lack of chemistry worth writing a negative review over? Assuming it wasn't because they misrepresented what they would be like, in personality or appearance?

Is a lack of chemistry worth writing a negative review over? Assuming it wasn't because they misrepresented what they would be like, in personality or appearance? Originally Posted by MaddietheCoed

That can be very subjective due to misconceptions between the two parties.......

Her not being into him can often be twisted by him to be that she was not remotely GFE, mechanical, distant, rushed him out...... Especially if he was really into her.....

Some guys are not mature enough to understand that a real GFE session requires some connection....

Some guys are not mature enough to understand that a real GFE session requires some connection.... Originally Posted by Whispers

Likewise, some girls are similarly unable to comprehend their role in this intimate dance. Especially the younger ones.

I'm frankly surprised that as many people DO get off on each other given the social, physical and socio-economic upbringing each had.

Back in the day it was about dicks and pussies. Life was simpler..

I want to thank our new mods for stepping into the breach, and challenge them to moderate the conflicts on the board as discussions between ladies and gentlemen.. Absent that, please judge us as whores and whoredogs. But whatever you do,please afford us the dignity to excel in our own respective niches.

Ignorance and arrogance should not be tolerated. Nor should racism and xenophobia.

But hey, just as long as you whack the member who's harrassing me right now I don't care if you've turned pussy into motor oil!


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I treat it like any other business transaction, if you don't ask you won't receive. I think that we often expect the "other party" to be a mind reader and get disappointed when they don't anticipate our needs.

Chemistry can't be predicted and at times doesn't matter. Beyond that a lot depends on your predefined expectations. You expect more from a longer higher cost session then from a shorter less expensive session. When you pay a premium and get an average or below average experience then the 1st question you need to ask yourself is did you actively try and manage the experience? If a gal is MSOG and your session appears to be one and done did you ask? If you want CIM and it's "on the menu" and you don't get it...did you ask?

I don't think I've ever walked out of a session without the gal knowing exactly where I stand. 90% of the time I find a gal will go out of her way to accommodate reasonable requests (and the gals get a lot of "requests" that are far from reasonable). I tend to review the very good, very bad or great value. Most of my negative reviews are going to be related to a "lack of" hygene, services or engagement.

Last one I recall (was actually ASPD) and my comment was "a blow up doll at least bounces back at you (or so I assume) and it takes a lot of skill to actually play dead with conviction...but if you've always got off on thoughts of necromancy this is your gal" or something to that effect

I'm of the mind that I'd rather know right then and there if there is something I should address or potentially change. Perhaps I cannot save the client, but it may help me improve for the next gent. I can never improve if I'm not made aware that something is remiss.

Problem with feedback during the session is that it tends to break the illusion, possibly even ruin the mood.

Feedback at the end of the session won't change what already happened.