The Courtesan Experience

All about attention to details. The true professionals know what it is and excute flawlessly.

Thats why i am willing to drop insane amounts for a weekend. I can afford it and that level of service warrants the compensation

Wow! And thanks for being a gentleman who gets it! A real courtesan understands that you are there for mental and emotional release, along with the physical. And you are spending a lot of coin for the experience, so making you feel at ease and respecting you are essential to any great encounter.
Quality does trump quantity for some hobbyists ... nice to hear your thoughts! Originally Posted by GayleMeyers

I am glad you said that. And it looks like you get it. Unfortunately, there are lots of providers out there who know how to say it but refuse to do it. What does it mean whenever a provider wants to berate hobbyists on the boards? One thing is for sure, she is not a real courtesan.

What kind of hobbyist would pay a lady who is constantly causing drama and telling those guys that she does not care what they want out of a session?

What kind of hobbyist would pay a lady who is constantly causing drama Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Sounds like a few of them here, they're more trailer trash faking it, I figure that out a long time ago 😂

This is a post of gratitude to the fine ladies that provide a true Courtesan Experience. By far my favorite encounters in the hobby have all had this flavor. I don't know that I can precisely define it, and unquestionably, I know when I have experienced it. It is an immersive experience that engages the mind as much as the body and ultimately stimulates all 5 senses to the highest level of pleasure and passion.

Generally I find that there are several characteristics that are always present, and in my experience, they are more frequently found with mature ladies. They are the special touches and considerations learned over years of mastering a craft.

It begins with a smooth ability to schedule an appointment, and what feels like a genuine expression of excitement and intrigue. A flirtatious exchange in the midst of an otherwise mundane process, setting the stage for the encounter to come. They create a heightened level of anticipation and a feeling of eagerness for connection.

Then they actually prepare for the encounter. I have no idea how long this takes or how much effort is truly involved, yet I know for certain when it has occurred. Conversation seeded with insight gained from reading my profile, a room obviously staged to support the occasion, music that sets the mood (even when the playlist doubles as a timer - beats the hell out of an alarm), and her choice of attire. It doesn't have to be elaborate. I have been greeted by a lady in just a white towel and it was obvious that she had planned that presentation.

The actual greeting has ranged from a flirtatious hug to a passionate kiss. And as things build there may be a teasing dance, or she may begin removing my clothes, or her clothes, and using that to build energy in the session. Much preferred to the "why don't you get comfortable" line.
The BCD activities may be GFE or PSE, but either way they are done with passion, energy, and interest. She makes me feel like the only other person in the world (unless there are 3 of us). It creates a sensation that neither of us wants this to end. Maybe an illusion, maybe not, her enjoyment adds to my pleasure.

And the true Courtesan has an elegant conclusion to our time together. She is masterful at making this feel unrushed, and leaves me eager to return as the door closes behind me.

This feels like a disappearing art. So to the ladies who strive to provide this intense level of connection, thank you. You are appreciated. Originally Posted by FitzChivalry

Now, can you please do a weekly
column about teaching men what to do and say in order for this type of experience to take place.
It really kills the mood and makes our job difficult when he says and does certain things that's uncalled for.
We realize some men are crude and are just starting the hobby, they don't know to be discreet, they might listen and learn something from another man.
I love for everything to go smoothly
as you described.
YOU ARE APPRECIATED Sir if you can help the new Grasshopper